{"id":4362,"date":"2020-02-13T23:42:42","date_gmt":"2020-02-14T07:42:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bryanfriedman.com\/?p=4362"},"modified":"2020-02-13T23:42:42","modified_gmt":"2020-02-14T07:42:42","slug":"learning-the-importance-of-learning","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/archive.bryanfriedman.me\/cloudingup\/2020\/02\/13\/learning-the-importance-of-learning\/","title":{"rendered":"Learning the Importance of Learning"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>My daughter&#8217;s elementary school has this thing called the Growth Mindset Program. I didn&#8217;t really pay much attention to what that meant when I first heard it. But as she progressed through a year or two of school, it came up more and more. So I figured it was probably time to figure out what it means.<\/p>\n<p>I asked my wife, the teacher. She told me it can be explained simply as &#8220;the power of yet.&#8221; When children struggle with something, instead of thinking &#8220;I can&#8217;t do it&#8221; we help them frame things differently so they say &#8220;I can&#8217;t do it&#8230;<em>yet<\/em>.&#8221; See how that works? Now they know it&#8217;s just a process and they&#8217;ll get there eventually.<\/p>\n<p>That was enough for me to feel like I understood it. It makes sense for developing young minds to think that way. I felt lucky that my kid was in a school that had such high order thinking.<\/p>\n<p>Then it came up again. My wife and I were helping our daughter navigate some challenges she was facing due to some perfectionist tendencies, and we came across a book called <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Bubble-Gum-Brain-Julia-Cook\/dp\/193787043X\"><em>Bubble Gum Brain<\/em><\/a>. It&#8217;s a tale of two kids with different brains. Bubble Gum Brain likes to stretch his mind and learn new things without worrying about mistakes, but Brick Brain figures there&#8217;s no way to change things so it&#8217;s not worth trying.<\/p>\n<p>Riveting fiction. But it actually helped. And in case it&#8217;s not obvious, it&#8217;s about Growth Mindset. (I also discovered a good book called <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Giraffes-Cant-Dance-Giles-Andreae\/dp\/0545392551\"><em>Giraffes Can&#8217;t Dance<\/em><\/a>\u00a0that has a similar message in a slightly more subtle fashion. It could more accurately be titled <em>Giraffes Can&#8217;t Dance&#8230;Yet<\/em>.)<\/p>\n<p>So that was that. Now my daughter was better able to manage her bouts of perfectionism by thinking about bubble gum and giraffes. Parenting achievement unlocked.<\/p>\n<p>Then it came up\u00a0<em>again.<\/em> Except this time, it wasn&#8217;t the eight year-old. It was Twitter. And it actually came up a lot. My Twitter feed is primarily filled with cloud computing and tech pundits and professionals (with a smattering of comedians and baseball reporters just to confuse and entertain). So I was surprised to see an elementary school education concept come up with some regularity from this crowd.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-width=\"550\" data-dnt=\"true\">\n<p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">IMO the most important skill to have in the tech industry is a Growth Mindset.  The list of technology you &quot;should know&quot; is constantly changing. The most valuable skill is learning how to learn.<\/p>\n<p>&mdash; Caitie McCaffrey (@caitie) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/caitie\/status\/1225815427797774337?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">February 7, 2020<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m sure you&#8217;re way ahead of me here. My brick brain had taken this long to realize that this wasn&#8217;t just for kids. In fact, maybe there was something to the fact that my <em>own<\/em> kid had been struggling with perfectionism. Have they found that strand in the human genome yet?<\/p>\n<p>Yes, Growth Mindset is a thing. Once I began down the internet rabbit hole, I realized just how much of a thing it is. &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/nobelcoaching.com\/growth-mindset-power-yet\/\">The power of yet<\/a>&#8221; isn&#8217;t just something my wife made up to explain it to me. There are gobs of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.mindsetworks.com\/science\/\">research<\/a>, books, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/growth-mindset-adults\/\">articles<\/a>, and videos about it. And it&#8217;s something that requires real cultivation. If getting everything perfect on the very first try is something frequently lauded, it&#8217;s not a great environment for growth.<\/p>\n<p>Thankfully, I&#8217;ve been lucky enough for the past several years to work in organizations and for managers that heavily value learning and actually do embrace a Growth Mindset. I just never put a name to it. (I&#8217;ve been in the opposite situation too so it&#8217;s nice to have some perspective on it.)<\/p>\n<p>So despite me burying my head in the sand about it for so long, I&#8217;ve been attempting to tap into my bubble gum brain as much as possible. I&#8217;m working on being less affected by a fear of failure and trying hard to celebrate my mistakes as part of the learning process. I guess what they say is true. You\u00a0<em>can<\/em> learn from your kids.<\/p>\n<p>Why am I writing about this now? Because at the start of this new year I&#8217;ve taken on a new role at VMware, leading a small team and focusing on developer engagement to help enterprise developers learn about and get started using <a href=\"https:\/\/cloud.vmware.com\/tanzu\">VMware Tanzu<\/a>. I&#8217;ve been a developer before, but this particular experience is a new one for me. And some days I feel like I don&#8217;t know how to do it&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;yet.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My daughter&#8217;s elementary school has this thing called the Growth Mindset Program. I didn&#8217;t really pay much attention to what that meant when I first heard it. But as she progressed through a year or two of school, it came up more and more. 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