Monthly Archives: August 2011

Matchmaker Matchmaker for Wedding Colors

Happy Thursday from Alison, your friendly neighborhood Yenta. I just stumbled across something and had an excited-attack, similar to the one I have every year when I have my first bite of charoset at Passover or the first taste of a crispy latke at Chanukah (yes, food makes me excited). But the other thing that makes me excited? COLORS.

I love colors.

My wedding was pink and orange and people thought I was nuts. Pink? With orange? Yes. It works. Trust me!

So, as I was scouring the Internet doing some personal research on nursery colors to complement my soon-to-be baby’s room, I flipped out when I discovered this website and felt like Christopher Columbus discovering America. I wonder if he let out the same girl squeal when he landed ashore? Hmmm…

Anyway, without further ado, allow me to introduce you to The Perfect Palette. If you need to find color combos for your wedding or get some ideas to fit into your color scheme, this is a fabulous resource. You’ll still find all your J-wedding details here, but if you need some inspiration, or to win an argument with your fiance that yes, lime does work with peach, this is your one-stop shop! Or, blog.

Here are some of my favorites that make me all ooey-gooey with color love.

Fluorescent Purple, Lavender, Mauve and White

Dusty Rose, Blush Pink, Peach, Antique Gold, Ivory & White

Aqua, Orange & White

Yellow, Slate Gray & Gray

Sky Blue, Light Yellow & White

Go on and play with all the great combos to get ideas! Happy coloring!

From The Expert: Zooming In On Videography

3, 2, 1, ACTION! Time to discuss wedding cinematography and why a videographer shouldn’t be the last vendor to call a week before the big day. Capturing your wedding on film is just as important as hiring a photographer and all of your other must-have vendors. Daniel Jankovic of Ahava Films has the creative background and passion for Jewish weddings to be able to share the four reasons why hiring a videographer should be at the top of your to-do list!

What will you remember about your wedding on your 10th anniversary? How about your 25th? In the midst of planning a wedding and its numerous components including catering, decor, music, and more, it’s important to plan how all of the day’s splendor will be captured… forever.

Both photography and cinematography are key elements in preserving the precious moments on your wedding day. In fact, it is crucial that the photographer and cinematographer work together as a team to get the best shots they can. This creates a friendly atmosphere for the wedding party and guests, and it also ensures that the pictures and video will not feature the camera man obscuring the most beautiful shots.

One bride shared with me that her photographer was actually front and center in all of the chuppah video footage. This can be easily avoided with the right team.

I strongly encourage brides and grooms to ask their photographer or cinematographer who they recommend for photos/video, as they can rest assured that the people who will be preserving their memories are in sync.

While wedding cinematography may not be such a high priority in your wedding checklist, I would like to suggest that cinematography should be given serious consideration for the following reasons:

Emotion
My clients (mostly the brides) tell me that they cry each time they watch their wedding film. The facial expressions, gestures, and words of the happy couple, friends, and family are captured forever in this medium. Often couples reflect back on their big day recalling the great joy of being surrounded by so many of their closest friends and family. The emotional impact of a wedding film comes through not only in the editing, but in the ability to capture extended periods of action. While families will always revel in the wedding portraits adorning their homes and albums forever, video can capture the tears rolling down a bride’s cheek as a groom pours out his love to his bride under the Chuppah.

Audio
It’s not only images we capture, but the sounds of the day. The speeches, the music, the sound of the breaking glass – these are just a few of the pieces of your wedding that are captured by a capable cinematographer. Most cinematographers go to great lengths to put a wireless microphone on the Rabbi to capture his momentous speech. We also connect to the sound system so we can have a clean CD-quality recording of the music played as you walk down the aisle, or as you dance together for the first time as a married couple. At a recent wedding, instead of a groom saying traditional vows, he played “Marry Me” by Train on guitar, which had the bride in tears. Thank G-d, this beautiful moment was captured not only visually, but aurally as well, which I’m sure will be a special memory for years to come.

Movement
Whether it’s the placing of the ring on the finger, the lifting of the chairs in the air, or the slicing of the white frosting-covered cake, cinematography preserves these actions in their entirety. The reaction of a groom seeing his bride for the first time in her wedding dress is priceless. And when a couple wants to remember the moves of their first dance together, their wedding film will be the perfect resource.

Memories
A common thought after a wedding is “It happened so fast!” After months, and maybe years of planning, it’s over in a matter of hours. For a bride and groom, a wedding can be such an intense experience that it’s nearly impossible to take it all in. I recently spoke with a bride whose wedding I shot, and she was convinced that certain people did not attend the wedding. When she saw the video and saw the people in reference, she realized how much she missed by being so wrapped up in the moment. Capturing these moments on video is a treat not only for you, but for future generations. My wife and I have three kids now, and they love watching our wedding video. It gives them a real sense for who we are, and where they come from, and also gets them excited about their own weddings.

All in all, I can’t count how many times I’ve heard brides and grooms thank themselves for investing in a wedding film. After opening up all their wedding gifts, their memories are often the most precious, and it’s a true privilege to be a part of preserving them forever.

Ahava Films Short Reel from Ahava Films on Vimeo.

After graduating from the USC School of Cinematic Arts, Daniel pursued his passion for producing cinematic, soulful wedding videos in Los Angeles. He started an event videography company called Famedia in 2005, and opened up Ahava Films in 2010 to focus on Jewish wedding cinematography in and around Los Angeles. When Daniel is not shooting weddings, you’ll find him sharpening his skills as he captures the memories of his wife and family of three children.

Real Weddings | Kansas City, MO

Rock Chalk, Jayhawk brings a nice boy and a cute girl together for love across the hall in the mostly-Jewish dorm and Hillel activities. After five years of dating, This University of Kansas couple got engaged in a romantic garden setting, where Steven surprised Liz with a candelight setting, and in front of a fountain, got down on his knee and proposed to his college sweetheart! When they left the gardens, Liz received flowers and they toasted with Champagne!

Wedding day highlights were courtesy of the cute kids in the wedding party and a touching father/daughter dance at the reception. The four-year-old flower girl insisted on smelling each flower petal before she placed each one individually on the floor and the ring bearer was concentrating very hard on keeping the rings on the pillow that he didn’t even notice he was tripping on the aisle runner all the way down the aisle. Precious! Liz’s dad kept the father/daughter song a surprise and recorded his own version of “Daughters” by John Mayer and then played it during a slideshow of their special times together. It was touching and left everyone in tears!

Liz and Steven enjoyed a very traditional wedding day and ceremony. The day began with a traditional Kabbalat Panim (bride’s reception) and Tish (groom’s reception) followed by the Bedeken (veiling ceremony). The couple signed the ketubah and Liz circled Steven seven times. Of course, the ceremony ended with a hearty “mazel tov!” when Steven stepped on the glass! The festivities continued with a rowdy Hava Nagila on the dance floor!

Mazel tov, Liz and Steven!

Reception Venue- Starlight Theatre
Photographer- Solar Photographers
Hair Stylist- CaraSue Hall, Professional Freelance Makeup and Hair Artist
Event Planner- Above & Beyond Weddings
Floral Designer- Good Earth Floral Design Studio
Cake Designer- Rebekah – Cake Artist
Band- Michael Beers Band
Dress, Veil, & Jewelry- Nolte’s
Officiant- Rabbi Adam Stein at Beth Shalom Synagogue
Bridesmaid Dresses- RK Bridal
Tuxedos- Men’s Wearhouse
Ketubah- MP Artworks Ketubah Studio
Yarmulkes- a1skullcap.com

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This wedding was submitted via Two Bright Lights! The Wedding Yentas is always looking for wonderful Jewish weddings from photographers who utilize Two Bright Lights.

Helping Out the Out of Towners

Wedding guests who are coming from out of town must really love you! No, really, this isn’t meant to be a guilt trip, but people who take the time and spend the money to travel to be at your wedding are people who hold you near and dear to their heart. So it’s truly an honor when out-of-town guests RSVP “yes!” to your wedding and Yentas etiquette recommends you do your best to make them feel at home and accommodated while they’re visiting you on your home turf.

You want to make their stay an enjoyable and memorable experience. Group rates on hotel rooms help them make the most of their wedding travel buck. It’s easy to do: Call two to three hotels, tell them you’re expecting a ballpark figure of wedding guests, and negotiate a group rate for a block of rooms. For your own sanity — and bank account — make sure the hotel doesn’t require you to pay a minimum. Some will, some won’t. Depends on the property. Just be aware that this is policy from time-to-time and you should be fine. Once you’ve secured your room rates, send advance notice to your out-of-town guests to let them know their options and rates. Include addresses of the hotels and approximate distances from the wedding-related events they would be invited to attend. Usually there’s a hotel deadline to reserve a room at the provided rate, so don’t forget to include the book-by date as well so guests don’t miss out and blame you!

You may want to provide welcome bags to your out-of-town guests. This is not a requirement, but it is a nice gesture and a popular wedding trend. The welcome bag can include basics like water, some snacks, an extra invitation or a print-out of the dates, times, and locations of wedding-related events, a list of things to do in the area, and maybe even a novelty item. Including a thank you note for coming shows your out-of-towners that you appreciate the extra effort and expense it took to travel to your wedding.

For your reference, use this checklist to help you organize and plan for your out-of-town guests:

Hotel

  • Reserve a block of rooms
  • Confirm reservations

Transportation

  • Set up shuttle service to the ceremony
  • Set up shuttle service to the reception
  • Set up shuttle service to the hotel(s)
  • Set up shuttle service to the planned events

Meals

  • Plan a pre-wedding dinner (Shabbat dinner, rehearsal dinner, welcome cocktail hour)
  • Plan apost-wedding brunch

Information

  • Supply directions to the hotel, ceremony, and reception
  • Supply maps of the local area
  • Supply brochures of attractions in the area
  • Mail information to guests prior to their departure
  • Supply hotel with the information

Welcome Gifts

  • Prepare welcome bags
  • Prepare welcome letters
  • Prepare schedule of events
  • Deliver welcome gifts to the hotel(s) to be handed out at guests’ check-in