Monthly Archives: December 2013

Have a Ball at a New Year’s Eve Themed Wedding

I’m going to a wedding three days before New Year’s Eve and I know it will be a festive and fun wedding because the couple is in love and happy, of course, but also because there’s something special and warm about this time of year. Everyone’s in a good mood; work is typically light; dressing up is a treat; drinks and dancing are what make people happy; and the magic of a new year upon us is inspiring. So I’m really looking forward to attending a friend’s wedding who I’ve known since I was a teenager at Jewish summer camp! While the wedding isn’t quite New Year’s Eve, it’s close enough that the festive vibe will be ringing loud and clear and will be one of the last weddings of 2013!

If you’re weeks away from your big day or are planning a near-New-Year’s-Eve wedding for 2014 into 2015, take away some of these tips and inspiration! Must-have photos? A celebratory kiss, of course! And there’s also something fun and classy about the details that go into a NYE wedding. Lots of black and white, crisp textures, sparkly accessories, and bright accents of confetti or bling. Those who are simple or more muted in their design preferences need not apply to have a New Year’s Eve wedding. A celebration that starts in one year and ends in the next is anything but boring!

So whether you’ll be celebrating a new year and a new marriage this year or planning for one next year, indulge in some New Year’s Eve wedding photos!

Studio Starling

Studio Starling

Braden Harris

Braden Harris

Ryan Estes Photography

Ryan Estes Photography

Natalie Williams Photography

Natalie Williams Photography

Miller + Miller

Miller + Miller

Lucy Dylan Weddings

Lucy Dylan Weddings

Jessica Claire

Jessica Claire

Colin Lyons Wedding Photography

Colin Lyons Wedding Photography

Grazier Photography

Grazier Photography

And don’t forget about the Blue Nile gift card that’s up for grabs! Check out the Leave Nothing To Chance app and then get your entry on!

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{Real Jewish Weddings} Jersey City, NJ

From the Bride, Lauren: Andy & I decided to get married in our hometown of Jersey City, on the banks of the Hudson River, across from lower Manhattan. We held the ceremony in the observation tower of the Liberty Science Center, which happens to be in walking distance of our 1885 brownstone. The private penthouse, enclosed in a pyramid of glass, sports breathtaking panoramic views of Liberty State Park, Manhattan, the Statue of Liberty and Ellis Island. And since the sky is visible through the glass ceiling, the venue was perfectly suited for the traditional Jewish wedding we were planning.

There was never a question in our minds as to the location of the reception. Andy owns one of Jersey City’s top restaurants, Satis Bistro, in the historic Paulus Hook neighborhood. Satis was our original date place and has become our home away from home. We couldn’t think of a better place to celebrate our marriage and share our passion for great food.

We were extremely pleased with our talented florist and cake decorator who furthered our vision of simple elegance with a touch of playfulness. We opted for an untraditional cake design which told the story of our long-distance relationship, between Boston and New Jersey. The cake was a stack of old-school suitcases and satchels with badges indicating the places we had spent time together while dating. It was topped with bride and groom sculptures. We also included sculptures of our stuffed animals, aka, our kids: Shrek and Green Monkey. You know you’ve found the perfect match when the most random things in your lives are in sync. In our case, our dolls both happened to be green.

Mazel tov, Lauren and Andy!

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Photography: Meridith Desmond Photography
Ceremony Site: Liberty Science Center
Reception Venue: Satis Bistro
Music: Jeff Meltzer
Ceremony Florals: Antheia
Reception Florals: Joseph’s Florist
Hair: Marissa Warner
Makeup: Ashley Levandoski
Dress: Kleinfeld
Cake: Cake & Co.

And don’t forget about the Blue Nile gift card that’s up for grabs! Check out the Leave Nothing To Chance app and then get your entry on!

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Sponsored by Blue Nile: Use the Leave Nothing To Chance Style App and Win Diamonds or a Gift Card!

This is a sponsored post and all opinions belong to Alison of The Wedding Yentas.

I love technology. We can talk on the phone while seeing others on the opposite end. We can communicate with friends across the world and stay in touch through social media. And now, there’s an application that analyzes your personality and declares what kind of jewelry your husband/mom/friend/boyfriend/sister/anyone-else-who-loves-you should buy you.

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Blue Nile, the largest online retailer of certified diamonds and fine jewelry, has just come out with a brand new platform that uses a scientific algorithm to analyze your responses and Facebook data to identify your fashion personality. It’s called Leave Nothing To Chance because, appropriately, when it comes to jewelry, you don’t want your gift-givers crossing their finger and hoping you’ll love what they buy you. When it comes to jewelry, let’s be real: hope is not enough.

You can find out if you’re a “Jet Setter,” “Queen Bee,” or “Understated Beauty” in order to see what kinds of jewelry pieces match that title. It will then issue a personalized infographic about your style along with a few gift recommendations, which you can customize and share on Facebook, Pinterest, or Twitter. Or, you know, just absolutely leave open on your sweetie’s computer — OOPS! There are 30 different personalities and it is surprisingly accurate!

Here’s what my results look like and I pretty much agree.

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By now you should know I’m a big fan of comedy. If people or activities don’t make me laugh, forget about it; I’m done! But the Leave Nothing To Chance app made me laugh SO HARD. And I wasn’t even drinking!

Each question is worded very casually and fun, so it doesn’t feel like you’re taking the SAT (which would have been horrible for me because the guy behind me during the SAT had the most horrific nose whistle and I was distracted the entire time. Especially on the math section. Hmmm. But hey! I went to college and it all worked out. GO CATS!). It’s fun to be guided through a survey that asks tongue-in-cheek lifestyle questions, such as, “Skinny dipping at night with friends or a good book and a warm bath?”

After you answer each casual and fun question, there’s a segue statement and that’s where the comedy gold is. Snarky, sassy statements about my personality made my peacock feathers present themselves and I was satisfied with the zingers.

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I would say you should have fun with this app just for the sass factor alone, but that’s not the only reason.
Those who participate will be entered to win a three carat diamond tennis bracelet. The winner will be contacted by email on Dec. 30.

Did you read that right?

You guys. You could win diamonds.

OK, hear me out.

If you use the app — and you should because it’s more fun than a lot of the other things you do to procrastinate on the computer — you can automatically be entered to win a three carat diamond tennis bracelet.

One more time in case you’re squinting from the idea of shiny things landing in your lap for free:

You could possibly win a three carat diamond tennis bracelet.

I don’t know how to make this clearer!

BUT, because I love you so much and because Blue Nile thinks that The Wedding Yentas is the best Jewish wedding blog ever, all of you get discount codes to buy stuff. Discount codes are seriously my favorite thing in the world. Every time I buy things online, I Google a discount code for the store just in case I can save more cash. It’s always so empowering when I’ve searched high and low to find a code and it actually works! No searching high and low here. Just straight ahead. Or in the next paragraph.

*Discount Code: BNAPP2013
It’s good for 10% off Blue Nile jewelry from Nov. 29, 2013 – Dec. 31, 2013. Enter the code into the “Reference Code” box at checkout.

One more thing — because it’s the season of giving and Blue Nile and I feel extremely generous — you can also enter to win a $50 gift card to Blue Nile!

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Have fun! And I hope the jewelry you receive is JUST what you wanted!

*Terms and conditions: Valid on select regularly-priced jewelry excluding loose diamonds, settings and Build Your Own Diamond Jewelry™. Offer not valid on sale merchandise, gift certificates, Monique Lhuillier jewelry, back-ordered items, polishing cloth, and jewelry cleaner purchases. Reference code BNAPP2013 must be entered in cart or mentioned over phone at time of purchase.Offer may not be combined with any other offer, cannot be applied retroactively, and applies to US customers only. Void where prohibited. Offer expires 11:59pm PST 12/31/2013. The offer terms and conditions are subject to change at any time without prior notice. Other restrictions may apply.

Sweepstakes is open to all international buyers that BlueNile ships to. Winnings will be in the form of an online promo code that you can enter at checkout. Please check this link: to see if BlueNile ships to your destination country. Thanks & Good luck!

When Do You Send Thank You Cards for Wedding Gifts?

I often receive emails from readers about the little things. I am always happy to help however I can! This one came in recently and I thought it was a great example of a really good question needing an equally good answer.

Dear Alison,

I was hoping to get your take on thank you cards for wedding gifts and when to send them. We have just started to receive some gifts for our wedding next month and it feels weird to wait until after the wedding to acknowledge our receipt of them. What do you think?

If I do choose to send a thank you card for a gift sent now, should I also send another thank you card after the wedding thanking the guest for coming?

-Abby

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Super good question!!! Write them as you get them. Much less daunting task than waiting until after the wedding. It’s totally acceptable to get wedding gifts early and it’s even more acceptable to write as you get them. The person who’s sending the gift likes it, too, because they feel good knowing you’ve received it and it’s safely in your home.

Thank them and do your spiel and if they’re coming to the wedding and say something like: “We are so looking forward to celebrating with you Next month/in a few weeks…”

If they’re not coming say something like: “We will miss you on the big day, but please know your thoughtfulness is so appreciated…”

And if you don’t know yet because you haven’t received their RSVP, just say something very neutral like: “The wedding day will be even sweeter thanks to your thoughtfulness, and we are so excited!”

After the wedding, you’ll write these same sentiments but just make them past tense.

Hope this helps!

Big fat mazels and love,
Alison

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