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Real Weddings | Milwaukee, Wisconsin

Dara and Eric were high school sweethearts, and had a gorgeous wedding overlooking Lake Michigan in the panoramic Pilot Room of Milwaukee’s Pier Wisconsin. The theme of the wedding was none other than Dara’s favorite color… purple! From the color of her shoes and garter, to the flowers, linens and ketubah, everything had a touch of purple.

Their purplicious wedding was also beautifully personalized. Her father sang them “Love Me Tender” during the ceremony, Dara’s aunt graced the place cards with calligraphy, and Eric designed the invitations.

After the ceremony, Dara and Eric enjoyed some alone time with hors d’oeuvres and champagne, then joined their guests for cocktail hour in the unique space of the main level. Guests enjoyed delicious Bartolotta’s appetizers, viewing the aquariums of the Great Lakes, and listening to live musicians, who also kept the dance floor packed all night!

We love that the photographs are bright and cheery, reminiscent of the gorgeous couple’s feelings on their wedding day!

Mazel tov, Dara and Eric!

Venue – Pier Wisconsin
Photographer – Reminisce Studio by Miranda & Adam
Caterer – Bartolotta’s
Florist – Impressions by Esther Flemming
Bakery – Delicately Delicious
Entertainment – Bob Filler Orchestra

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Yentas Take The Cake!

There actually is something sweeter than the exchange of kisses between the bride and groom. Yup, really, there is.

Unlike kisses, this something has calories.

And frosting.

Mmmmm wedding cake.

Sure, the vows, the flowers, the hora — it’s all great, yada yada, but my favorite part of the night is cake time! What do you want from me? I’m a nice Jewish girl who knows a thing or two about food.

So when it’s time to start thinking about ordering your cake, here are some thought starters to point you in the right direction. Make sure to ask your baker the following questions:

How far in advance the cake needs to be ordered?

What choices are offered for the cake for fillings, icings, decoration?

How big of a cake will you need for the amount of guests you’re expecting?

Therefore, how many tiers or what size cake will this be?

How much will it cost?

Will they deliver to your venue?

Is there a delivery charge?

Who sets up the cake at the venue?

Also make sure you taste as many varieties of cake as possible. First of all, this is absolutely fun and who doesn’t like to eat (usually) free cake?! Secondly, this is your wedding cake! For your wedding day! Enjoy the experience. Go to as many bakeries as you can and taste! If you want, you can even bring a pad of paper and make notes about each bakery’s flavors so you remember when it’s time to make a decision.

If you are having a kosher wedding cake, there are many bakeries who know the laws and restrictions required for preparing kosher food. Quality and taste do not have to be compromised in a kosher cake! It’s likely that you’ll be serving a meat dinner, so all that means is removing butter from the ingredients of the cake and substituting with margarine. Also, the milk can be substituted with soy or non-dairy creamer. Obviously, the utensils and kitchenware that are used to make the cake should not come into contact with non-kosher foods or dairy products (again, assuming the main meal was meat).

For specific questions about kosher cakes, I’m sure your rabbi will be able to guide you in the right confection… I mean, direction.

If you need cake decor ideas, here are some beauties that are totally drool-worthy.

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Images courtesy of Kate McElwee Photography, Solar Photographers, Sun-Dance Photography, Jasmine Star Photography.

Real Weddings | Los Angeles, CA

Lauren thought she knew when Graeme was going to propose, but Graeme was determined to surprise her. He had arranged for both of their families to go out for dinner the night before their cruise to Mexico. Lauren was told that only Graeme’s family would be there for his “birthday dinner,” but Lauren still had a feeling that the proposal would come that night. Graeme had to make some changes to the original plan since she had figured it out. He asked Lauren’s friend, Joanna, to make plans to exercise by the beach in Santa Monica on that Saturday morning. Graeme woke up early to “run errands” with his brother, Shaun. Instead, they met up in Santa Monica and they set up over a thousand rose petals on a grassy overlook of the ocean that said, “Will you marry me?”

Meanwhile, Joanna and Lauren arrived for their walk and stumbled upon all of the rose petals, but she didn’t realize what was going on until she heard their song, Jason Mraz’s “I’m Yours” playing. She started jumping up and down with excitement and Graeme came out from his hiding spot. Graeme guided Lauren over to a blanket surrounded by a heart made out of rose petals and got down on his knee and proposed. People passing by were cheering, and Joanna and Shaun were hiding behind trees watching the moment. After the proposal, they went for brunch with Graeme’s accomplices, Shaun and Joanna, and celebrated with both sets of families that night.

We love romantic surprises like this! This proposal makes us swoon! Their New Year’s Eve wedding was a double whammy for celebrating. Not only did their guests toast to a gorgeous couple, but they rang in the 2010, a year that would surely be sweet for the newlyweds!

Mazel tov, Lauren and Graeme!

Venue – Sephardic Temple
Photographer – ABM Photography
Entertainment – Pini Cohen Band
Makeup – Makeup the Bride
Hair – Adeena Sternlib – Blush Salon
Jewelry – Los Angeles Diamond Factory
Flowers – Angelic Floral Studio
Bakery – Schwartz Bakery
Ketubah – Ketubah.com

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Take A Walk On The Aisle-d Side

Ever wonder about coordinating the order for the wedding processional? Getting ready to stroll down the aisle doesn’t have to be Broadway choreography. We have the traditional Jewish wedding processional for you right here, so you don’t need to worry about who goes where and when.

First to walk down is the rabbi. If you choose to have a cantor, too, the cantor will walk with the rabbi to his right. They set up shop under the chuppah where there should be a microphone stand and a table with all of the wedding accessories (kiddush cup, bottle of wine [go with the white!], and signed ketubah).

Second to mosey are the bride’s grandparents followed by the groom’s grandparents. If there is a scenario where there is a single grandparent, consider having a cousin or father walk the single grandparent down the aisle. After the walk-down, the grandparents should sit in the first row of chairs, closest to the chuppah. Bubbie’s gotta hear, ya know?

Next, the groom’s attendants, followed by the best man, take a hike down the aisle to clear the path in support of the groom.

Then, the groom walks down the aisle with his parents. The father is to the left and the mother is to the right. Their son is obviously in the middle. It’s a groom sandwich! The groom’s parents should go take their places under the chuppah on the left side (if you’re looking at the chuppah).

While the groomsmen line up to the left of the chuppah (if you’re looking at it), the groom stands at the foot of the chuppah, waiting for his bride to join him.

But first he watches as the bridesmaids and the maid of honor make their way down the aisle and settle to the right of the chuppah (if you’re looking at it).

This next slot would be for any flower girls or ring bearers if you choose to have them.

Finally, the big reveal: the bride walks down the aisle with her parents. The father is on her left and the mother is on her right. The brides parents will then make their way under the chuppah on the right side, joining the new machatunim (yiddish for “in-laws,” also known as, the groom’s parents or the bride’s parents, depending on who’s speaking. Used in a sentence: “We’re going to the machatunim’s house for Passover tonight. Our daughter Esther’s mother-in-law makes a very good gefelte fish, no?”).

What happens next is determined by the rabbi and the couple. This varies from rabbi to rabbi. But eventually, the bride and groom will join their parents and the rabbi under the chuppah to begin the ceremony.

The recessional isn’t much different than the processional. As we learned in 4th grade English, “re” means again, so it’s really just the “-cessional” again. After the glass is broken and there are lots of kisses and exclamations of “mazal tov!”, the couple turns around and faces the guests and leads the way down the aisle. The parents should go next, then the members of the wedding party.

You may choose to have your wedding party paired up in couples. We’ve seen this at many Jewish weddings, so it seems to be okay. If you opt to couple up your bridal party, they can process between the bride and groom and recess after the parents.

As always, we must remind you to consult your rabbi or cantor about this topic before setting anything in stone. We write what we know, but we’re not clergy.

Let us remind you, dear brides, to take a deep breath, open your eyes, and smile! Walking down the aisle and seeing your friends and family surrounding you is an overwhelming and beautiful experience. Take it all in and enjoy!

*Photo courtesy of Eight20 Photography

Friday Favorites | Souperman To The Rescue

It’s a bird!
It’s a plane!
No!
It’s SOUPERMAN!

Souperman is here to fight off its most banal enemy. The cloudiest criminal. The foggiest foe. The saboteur of the skies:

June Gloom.

There’s a silver lining to those foggy, misty, cloud-cover days in June that haunt our supposed summer and it’s called matzo ball soup! Who says you need to have a sore throat and tonsils the size of tennis balls (like I currently have) just to eat matzo ball soup? Passover’s not the only day to take in this stupendous soup. Woman, get in the kitchen: it’s time to get cookin’!

Now, you can absolutely use a mix and dump a can of chicken broth onto the stove. You think I always create from scratch every single time? Hell to the no! But for those special times you want to really be one with your food, here’s a recipe that we love… like Friday Favorites Love.

This recipe is from the Smitten Kitchen, an online recipe haven that we use when we’re hungry and pumped to prepare good food. The photos are also courtesy of Smitten Kitchen. Looks delicious, huh? Oh and for the record, the Yentas are all about light and fluffy matzo balls. Poor Nicky lives in a split household; her husband, Eric, prefers them hard. We’re going to be mature adults and refrain from making jokes about that sentence.

Chicken Stock
The single most helpful thing you can keep on-hand if you wish to make your own soups and stocks is a stock bag, a concept I picked up from Sara Moulton way back when. This is a bag you keep in your freezer with ingredients you’re saving to flavor a soup base. It’s especially awesome for those of us who hate throwing things away–you never have to. Chopping leeks tonight? Throw the tough green ends in your stock bag. Discarding mushroom stems? Add them too. Only using half that onion? Don’t let it grow old and forgotten in your fridge.

This works for chicken as well. When you go to buy chicken for a dish, grab a whole one and ask the guy behind the counter to chop it for you. It costs a lot less and you can then save the back and wings (because who eats wings?) in a separate stock bag, so they’ll be ready when you are.

Yield: Approximately 3.5 quarts

3 1/2 to 4 1/2 pounds chicken necks, backs and wings
3 celery ribs, cut into big chunks
3 carrots, scrubbed and cut into big chunks
2 parsnips, scrubbed and cut into big chunks
2 onions, unpeeled and quartered
1 head garlic, cut horizontally in half
1 Turkish or 1/2 California bay leaf
1 tablespoon black peppercorns
1 tablespoon Kosher salt
4 quarts cold water
–and/or–
Any vegetables you have stashed in your Stock Bag (described above)

Bring all ingredients to a boil in an 8- to 10-quart heavy pot. Skim froth. Reduce heat and gently simmer, uncovered for 3 hours.

Pour stock through a fine-mesh sieve into a large bowl and discard solids. If using stock right away, skim off and discard any fat. If not, cool stock completely, uncovered, before skimming fat, then chill, covered. Reserve a few tablespoons of the skimmed fat if you wish to use them in matzo balls (below).

Stock can be chilled 3 days in the refrigerator or frozen 1 month.

Matzo Ball Soup

There are two matzo ball camps: those that like them heavy and leaden at the bottom of a bowl and those that like them light and fluffy–these are the latter, and in my mind, the better ones.

If you can’t find matzo meal, pulse a few pieces of matzo in your food processor until it is a coarse powder. If you can’t find matzo, well, you obviously do not live in New York City.

Makes 8 to 12 matzo balls

Matzo Balls
1/2 cup matzo meal
2 eggs, lightly beaten
2 tablespoons reserved chicken fat or vegetable oil
1 teaspoon salt
1/4 teaspoon black pepper
2 tablespoons chicken stock or seltzer (which both of our mothers swear by for making the balls extra light)

For soup
2 to 3 quarts prepared chicken stock (recipe above)
1 carrot, thinly sliced
A few sprigs of dill

Mix all matzo ball ingredients in a bowl. Cover and place in the refrigerator for 30 minutes.

Bring 1 1/2 quarts of well-salted water to a brisk boil in a medium sized pot.

Reduce the flame. Run your hands under water so they are thoroughly wet. Form matzo balls by dropping spoonfuls of matzo ball batter approximately 1-inch in diameter into the palm of your wet hands and rolling them loosely into balls. Drop them into the simmering salt water one at a time. Cover the pot and cook them for 30 to 40 minutes.

About ten minutes before the matzo balls are ready, bring prepared chicken stock to a simmer with the sliced carrot in it. Ladle some soup and a couple matzo balls into each bowl and top with a couple snips of dill. Eat immediately.

After all your hard work, make sure you don’t ruin your table with a piping hot pot of matzo ball soup. Set it down on this beautiful hamsa trivet that you can purchase on Modern Tribe. Check out the site for more Jewish themed home, holiday, gift, and personal items. You could really spend hours drooling over the online store’s gorgeous and unique items!

We love the pomegranate details and the hamsa is a symbol that wards off evil… like a dark and misty June Gloom day.