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Tales From The Veil: Picture Perfect Proposal

Today’s Tales From The Veil is a fun proposal from Jordan to Alison! Originally from Chicago, Alison relocated to Los Angeles after years in a long distance relationship with Jordan. They met through a mutual friend, Jordan’s high school pal and Alison’s sorority sister. The couple enjoys going to new restaurants, traveling around the world (recent favorites include Argentina and Italy!), and getting together with friends. Alison and Jordan will have a Jewish wedding and have just begun the planning process.

The day before New Year’s Eve (so is that New Year’s Eve Eve?) meant an early start to the weekend for both Jordan and me. We figured we’d be home around the same time since we were both done with work at 2:00 or 3:00 that afternoon, but little did I know, he’d been home since noon planning the best engagement ever!

During a usual commute full of stop-and-go L.A. traffic, Jordan called me to find out how far I was from home, but I was on the other line and I didn’t pick up! Oops. I found out later that for 45 minutes, Jordan was sitting on the couch by our window watching for my car to pull into the garage.

I finally turned my key in the door, which probably made Jordan’s heart start to race, and I walked in the apartment, tired from the day and excited about New Year’s weekend. Right in front me, lining the hallway into our place, were rose petals up and down the entry way and 70 photos of us methodically placed in order from the time we first starting dating up until now. Romantic music filled the room. I knew what this was! It was finally happening! I couldn’t wait to find out what would come next! But, where was Jordan? I called his name, but he didn’t answer. Either I had a burglar who was very fond of me, or Jordan was keeping quiet in another part of the apartment.

I kept walking and finally found him sitting nervously on the couch. I think we were both just a bundle of nerves. It’s funny because we both knew this was part of our big, ya know, “life plan.” And we had talked about it so much, we knew it would be happening sooner or later. But on a day when I totally didn’t expect it, with a scene that was right out of a movie, the nerves took over and the adrenaline rush kicked in. That “oh my goodness, this once in a lifetime event is about to happen to me RIGHT. NOW. Must savor it all! Must remember everything!”

But of course, that never happens. It’s all so impossible to remember everything.

Jordan went on to say some really nice things. Add me to the list of girls who don’t remember a word out of the boyfriend’s mouth when he proposes. But the whole scene with Jordan down on one knee and my world turning upside down — in a good way! — in a matter of minutes completely messed with my memory retention.

Of course, I said yes! According to Jordan, he didn’t remember hearing it, so he had to confirm the positive answer a few minutes later. And if the decked out apartment and beautiful, perfect, and sparkly diamond ring weren’t enough, Jordan also had a cookie cake and Champagne on the dining table ready for us to enjoy.

We enjoyed the moment, toasting and laughing at each other and becoming used to our new titles of co-fiance. After about an hour, we started with the phone calls and broke the news to all of our excited friends and family. It was all just so… sweet.

Just in time for dinner, we headed out to one of L.A.’s best steak houses to celebrate. The celebrating continued throughout the weekend with a fabulous New Year’s Eve one night and welcoming all of our closest friends over for a toast another night. It was really the best weekend ever and I know that this year is going to be such a fun adventure. I am looking forward to planning a wedding with Jordan and experiencing the day surrounded by all of our friends and family in my hometown of Chicago. It’s already been so special; I’m excited to find out what else is in store!

I later found out that Jordan caught my entrance on video! The computer was facing the entry way and the web cam, which was pointed in my direction recorded my reaction to seeing the roses and photos lining the hall. Short of having Ashton Kutcher come out of the walls, I had my own personal episode of Punk’d except it was no joke at all! And the ring on my finger is there to prove it!

Real Jewish Weddings | Beverly Hills, CA

Elana and Scott met at a nightclub in Cancun on a college spring break. They were both attending University of Michigan, but it took a tropical getaway for them to finally meet and begin their love story!

Their wedding was a mirrored reflection of who they are as individuals and a couple. Even though it was a formal location, they wanted to incorporate a more relaxed feeling throughout their wedding. Spanish guitars played for their outdoor garden ceremony, and lush florals, including real lemons and limes, reflected a distinctly California vibe. Guests sipped on lychee mojitos during cocktail hour and “picked” their escort cards from a lemon tree.

Mazel tov, Elana and Scott!

Venue- Four Seasons Los Angeles at Beverly Hills
Photographer- David Michael Photography
Event Planner & Candy Buffet- Bella Sophia Events
Florals- Tic Tock Couture Florals
Band and Ceremony Music- West Coast Music
Videographer- BGS Productions
Stationery- Boo’Me Creations
Rentals and Lighting- Classic Party Rentals

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A Groom with Sass Steps on the Glass

Crunch.
Smash.
Stomp.
Boom.
Bang.
Crash.
Crush.

These are the sounds everyone wants to hear when the groom steps on the glass at his Jewish wedding. What a yummy and satisfying sound and it elicits such a hearty “mazel tov!” from all those in attendance. And bookended by kisses? Yeah, what’s not to love about the breaking of the glass?!

The question is: Can breaking the glass become any more exciting than it already is? The answer is YES. Yes, it can.

Thanks to Mazel Tov Stone, the groom has a ceremony memento that provides a sturdy and volume-increasing surface for the glass to break on with a rapid and swift stomp of the foot. Want even more bang for your buck? The pro tip: Use the heel of the foot for maximum crunch.

A Mazel Tov Stone does more than its job under the chuppah during the ceremony. It also serves as a beautiful keepsake of your wedding because it’s personalized with your information. You have a ketubah as a special symbol of your wedding day, right? A Mazel Tov Stone is another artifact from the happiest day of your life that can live in your home for all the years after.

A few weeks ago, I got to hang out with Robb and Lisa — the genius husband-and-wife team behind Mazel Tov Stone — at Bridal Premiere in California.

It’s always so fun to see friends of The Wedding Yentas in person. To all the rest of the fabulous friends in The Wedding Yentas Vendor Directory, let’s plan a big, flashy party so we can all get together and gush about our favorite thing: Jewish weddings!

Anyway, Mazel Tov Stone set up a picture-perfect booth to complement their beautiful stones and offered real demos of glass-breaking galore. They were also offering a bridal show special on their pricing. Teeeeeeechnically, it was an offer for people who were there that day and that day only. But, because you’re a reader of The Wedding Yentas, mention the bridal show special and you might luck out in the savings department. Wink, wink.

It was so fun to watch all kinds of grooms take a shot at breaking the glass. Even when it’s not a real wedding, there’s something so contagiously happy about it!

Inspired By: Getting Ready Shots

Depending on the bride and the kind of day it is, getting ready can be the calm before the storm. Or, even sometimes, the storm before the calm.

Either way, getting ready for the wedding is a fun and girly time to be with your favorite ladies as you prepare to look your prettiest! Many brides hire a makeup artist and hair stylist to come to the room. Some brides enjoy champagne toasts. Other brides just hang out with the girls and chat away about, oh you know, life and take advantage of a milestone together. No matter what, having your photographer capture these moments as you get ready to walk down the aisle is so special and you have fabulous photos to prove it!

Photos of the getting ready details are just as important as the reception details. Love these two inspiration boards from Desiree and Richard’s wedding by Heidi Ryder and wedding by Becky and Diego’s wedding by Katherine O’Brien.

Getting Ready by Heidi Ryder Photography

Getting Ready by Katherine O’Brien Photography

Spotlight On: Old new borrowed redo

They say that it’s good luck for a bride to follow the old adage, “Something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue.” You know this one: you go around collecting something to represent each adjective and you wear/carry/hold it on your wedding day and then poof! You’ll live happily ever after. Or, unless you’re me and you plan and plan and plan to do this for tradition’s sake and it’s not until you’re on your way to the venue the afternoon you’re to become a Mrs. you realize you FORGOT to do it. The wedding was great anyway and the marriage has been pretty sweet. I’m not too worried. Still, bummer.

But I digress.

What happens after the wedding day? Well, there’s a new catchy phrase that can also make your dreams come true: Old, new, borrowed, redo. Yes. Redo. That’s the key.

I’ve recently discovered this phrase; this “old, new, borrowed, redo” thanks to a set of three sisters who’ve begun a business that does the last verb: redo! A set of twins, Lindsey and Jennifer, and their older sister, Staci, are the masterminds behind a service that, in a nutshell, takes a special piece of clothing that may not have a purpose anymore and turns it into a memento that carries the original memories in a new form. Hence, the redo.

Bridesmaid Dress Redone to be Bed Decor Pillows & Lingerie

Bridesmaid Dress Redone to Become Throw Pillow and Picture Frames

The three sisters from San Diego successfully have been the fairy godmothers to ladies in need of cleaning out their closets and aren’t sure what to do with a dress they paid money for at one point. A bridesmaid dress that, c’mon, is not wearable again (but cost you $300 anyway, thankyouverymuch) can have a new life as a set of throw pillos. The fabric may not have worked on your skin tone, but oo la la, what a way to dress up the guest room bed! Or, the all-taffeta-and-lace wedding dress from 1986 that has only been sitting in a box, yellowing away in all its puffy-sleeved, turtleneck glory that could otherwise become, believe it or not, a cute and sexy lingerie set. Yes, these things are possible because Old new borrowed redo is a creative venture that reimagines these wearables.

The girls redo more than just bridesmaid and wedding dresses. They’ve recreated keepsakes out of flower girl dresses, prom dresses, mother of the bride dresses — anything that had a life as something worn can become a baby’s receiving blanket, pillows, and even a picture frame!

Oh, and guess what: the girls also do t-shirt quilts. This is a popular way to hold onto some of your memories via t-shirts that you can’t wear anymore. Whether you have a collection of old high school sports t-shirts or sorority t-shirts from every single event that ever happened ever (you know what I’m talking about), it might break your heart to throw them away or recycle them to the house rags bin, so relive the county win or craaaaazy date dash from junior year in the form of a warm and cozy quilt.

I have so many pieces in my closet (coral-pink taffeta prom dress from 2001 included!) that I can’t bring myself to just toss. But, there’s absolutely no reason to hold on to them just because I’m a sentimental fool (read: hoarder). This makes me a very qualified recipient of something old turned something Old new borrowed redo.

Formalwear Redone To Be Receiving Blankets for Baby

Here’s how it works:
You contact the sisters at Old new borrowed redo.

You ship them your piece.

You sign a form that basically says, “yes, have at it!”

You wait four to six weeks while the gals busily redo.

You receive a shipped all-new keepsake item.

Stalk them on Facebook so you can see the latest and greatest creations, giving new life to someone’s something old. It’s fun to see what they come up with and think, “Wait, THAT was WHAT?!” Very cool.

It’s always exciting to discover a new service in the wedding industry that can make the post-wedding blues turn into something exciting, so it’s an honor to share it with all you fellow Yentas!

Wedding Dress Redone to Become Lace Bed Decor