Honoring Thy Mother

Not to sound like a naggy mother, but don’t forget Mother’s Day is this Sunday! Time flew! Weren’t we just eating matzo for a week? Now we’re onto the next family holiday. Mothers play a big part in our lives. Well, for starters, a mother gives us life — literally — so that’s got to count for something. And then as a little girl, you start to imitate her, wearing her too-big high heels around the house and overspritzing her perfume all over your little body. Then you’re a teenager and you declare at least twice daily that she’s, like, ohmygosh soooo embarrassing and ruining your life, but you don’t really mean it. And then you’re engaged and she’s part of your entourage as you shop for The Dress and she helps top off your registry with all the big ticket items at your bridal shower. And then it’s your wedding day, and she manages to cry/giggle/smile/sob/sniffle/beam the entire day — all concurrently — because she raised a beautiful, perfect woman who’s a stunning bride.

And then, a few years later, you are pregnant with your first child — a daughter — and your mom’s same cry/giggle/smile/sob/sniffle/beam carries over as she watches you enjoy the ups and only a few downs (mostly having to do with your expanding tushie) of her daughter becoming a mother. (Alison’s Baby Yenta due in August!)

But that wedding day. Oh, that wedding. It’s the best day of your life as you leap into your new role as wife to your amazing husband. But you will still always be your mom’s little girl. So a few days before Mother’s Day 2011, we take this time to look at some tender mother moments from past Real Weddings.

Happy Mother’s Day — not just on Sunday — but every day!

Mom shares excitement as the walk to the chuppah nears!
Dana & Mark | California — Todd Rafalovich Photography

Mom kisses her little girl as she’s about to become a wife. You are never too old for kisses.
Sara & Matt | Florida — Karen Lisa Artistic Photography

Mom is always handy to have around as she lends a helping hand to her handsome soon-to-be son-in-law.
Rachel & Tim | Hawaii — Dawn Nash of the Romance Specialists

Mom gets final approval as she proudly watches her daughter become a bride.
Alison & Bryan | California — eight20 photography

It never gets old to hear from mom that you’re beautiful.
Jennifer & Gary | California — Matei Horvath Photography

Mom has spent her whole life giving you presents, so on your wedding day, it’s fun to give her something sentimental in return!
Rose & Alex | Mexico — Leigh Miller Photography

Kate’s Dress Inspires Jewish Brides

It’s a sure bet that we’re going to start seeing Kate Middleton wannabe dresses, styles, and accessories all over Wedding Land. And why not? Girlfriend was gorgeous! The Princess Bride could not have looked more stunning with her simple, feminine hair that flowed down, her natural and fresh makeup, and of course the dress, oh That Dress, by Sarah Burton for Alexander McQueen.

It is The Wedding Yentas opinion that The Dress definitely lived up to expectations. How difficult it must be to be a bride where people even have expectations of your dress, and then to pull it off flawlessly, well, kudos to Kate. It was the perfect combination of traditional, royal wedding-wear and young, fresh, modern bride. Her arms and shoulders were conservatively covered per Westminster Abbey’s required tradition, but Kate’s beautiful fashion sense still shone through in her neckline, skirt, and style of lace. She really was absolutely breathtaking.

And as a Jewish bride, you may have something in common with her! No, you are probably not going to inherit the Queen of England as your grandmother-in-law and certainly no one is putting bets into Vegas on the length of your first public kiss at Buckingham Palace, but it’s likely you may wish to have or be required to have your shoulders covered for your Jewish wedding. And like Kate, you don’t have to sacrifice style for modesty.

In case you missed it, last year The Wedding Yentas published a great spread on how to rock a bolero jacket or shoulder covering with your wedding dress. Here’s another glimpse into the professional photo shoot that helped so many of our readers learn about dressing fashionably and pleasing a rabbi.

Mazel tov to Kate… and mazel tov to you!

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Unless you’re shopping for your wedding dress at a Victorian-themed costume shop, most of the wedding gowns you’re seeing at mainstream bridal salons include some sexy attributes or cuts that reveal a lot of epidermis real estate. Whether you’re just not comfortable with how the dress fits your upper body or if there are dress code restrictions by which you must abide, The Wedding Yentas are here to reassure you that on your big day, you can look like a dream without living through any couture nightmares.

Many Jewish brides are unable to show their shoulders or open backs, specifically during the ceremony portion of the wedding. We understand that very traditional and observant brides will wear dresses that have sleeves and high collars the whole day. These styles of dresses are gorgeous and absolutely ideal for Orthodox weddings. However, for brides who practice a more reform or conservative denomination of Judaism, it’s possible that the synagogue, rabbi, or the bride’s own personal beliefs will guide her to keep her shoulders covered during the ceremony, but uncovering them for the reception. Always make sure to check with your rabbi first to make sure you’re on the same page regarding wedding attire.

Instead of buying an additional reception dress, The Wedding Yentas have you covered for shoulder covering ideas. Gone are the days of shawls made out of yarn that clash with your raw-silk gown. We have found boleros for you that are stylish, modern, and provide the modesty you need to meet your one-and-only under the chuppah. These boleros are so good-looking, you’ll want to keep them on for the party, anyway!

On May 2, 2010, The Wedding Yentas produced their first ever photo shoot that included a fantastic team of wedding vendors that get 5 out 5 stars (of David) in our little blue and white book. You can expect to see more shoots like this in the future where we assemble a team of some of the best wedding vendors in the industry to show our readers just how to combine style with tradition. Producing these events gives brides a chance to see the latest and greatest in Jewish wedding planning while spotlighting vendors who are experts in their field. We hope you enjoy this 2-part feature because we are so excited to present to you The Bolero Look Book for Jewish Brides!

All of the boleros we feature can be made to order and purchased via the links below. We are showcasing artists who provide excellent customer service along with high-end product. We are happy to endorse these boleros and their talented creators!

Shauna’s World Online Store
Shauna’s World offers classic boleros with quality lace and fashionable details that complement any style of wedding gown.

Mary and Angelika’s Etsy Store
Mary and Angelika graced our models with their vintage-style boleros, featurng feminine details that would make Marie Antoinette squirm with jealousy. Forget diamonds; ruffles are a girl’s best friend.

Uptown Urban Craft’s Online Store
Uptown Urban fit right in with this rural photo shoot. The boleros provide a modesty that is both adorable and chic, allowing any bride to feel like she’s walking down a runway instead of an aisle.

Gertie B’s Etsy Store
Gertie B gets an A+ for her delicate boleros! A bride who wears these boleros feels graceful and ladylike, as lace is the epitome of bridal.

Our phenomenal photographers were Eight20 Photography, Chelsea Elizabeth Photography, Araxi Photography, and Photography by Tara Rochelle. They captured the models in the boleros perfectly, providing you a glimpse of how stylish you can look in your traditional wedding!

Alison Franchi of Le Petit Gardenia provided a table scape that would make Butchart Gardens envious! She assembled gorgeous bouquets for the brides and dreamy details all around. She is quite the floral artist and really helped set the tone of the shoot.

Susie Chhuor worked her magic on our three models and did a terrific job enhancing their beauty, creating a natural, feminine look. The makeup looked just as great at the end of the shoot as it did when Susie applied it.

Special Occasion Hair by Natascha designed hair styles that stayed in tact all day and emphasized the bridal look we wanted our models to showcase. Her diverse works of hair art definitely complemented the flowing styles we were featuring.

The fabulous designers behind these boleros provided us quality fashions and we couldn’t be more obsessed with them! On Wednesday, we’ll talk more about our awesome day and give you a behind-the-scenes view of the photo shoot, so visit us on May 12th to see how exactly The Wedding Yentas produced this day!

Royal Wedding Inspiration Board

Happy Wedding Day to Kate and William!

…And they lived happily ever after! (So we hope!)

And since this royal wedding has been influencing current pop culture, Will and Kate can also influence your wedding style as you continue to plan for your own royal day.

Thanks to these etsy artists and merchants, you can incorporate these items into your bridal showers, house warming, wedding reception, thank you gifts, bridal party, and more!

TOP ROW
William and Kate Wood Dolls Cake Topper by Cakemates
Royal Crown Gift Tags by ifiwerecards
Mini Cupcakes by CrazyMae’s
Royal Wedding Invitation by thepapertailor

MIDDLE ROW
Wrap Dress by Lirola
Tulips by Tartlette
Royal Wedding Bunting by SnuginaDub
Union Jacks Mini Flags by britishcreamtea

BOTTOM ROW
Crown and Beads Pendant by dreamstorage
Union Jack Rubber Stamp by skullandcrossbuns
Royal Carriage Bronze Necklace by pennymasquerade
Silk Charmeuse Wedding Gown by andiemcguire

Be The Next (Jewish) Princess

The Wedding Yentas is a wedding planning blog, so it would basically be sacrilegious to not pay any attention to the wedding of the century. In case you’ve been living under a rock, the world is losing one in-demand bachelor on Friday. Prince William is marrying Kate Middleton and we’ve all lost our once-in-a-lifetime chance of becoming the next princess. Kate won the role and she’s one lucky lady.

But a girl can dream, can’t she? Want to see what you would have looked like if you were in Kate’s (probably jewel-encrusted, very expensive) shoes?

TLC’s website has a Princess Yourself app that allows you to see what you’d look like if you became royalty via marriage. Just pick out a photo of your face, select your royal hair, royal earrings, royal necklace, and royal wedding dress and you will royally laugh! If anything, have a grand ol’ time playing around with the different combinations while you keep yourself up all night in anticipation of the televised Westminster nuptials.

Here’s a sneak peak of Yenta Alison and Yentas Intern Rachel dolled up on their royal wedding days:

Next, we may be seeing apps for Kate to Jewish Princess herself which will have her uploading her headshot into a bride’s outline under a chuppah and a yarmulke on her groom.

Okay, maybe not.

As of Friday, she may be the next Queen-in-Waiting, but as we all know, there’s just nothing like a Jewish princess.

Faking It

Nothing says “a girl in love” like a bride who bats her eyelashes on her wedding day. That’s why the beauty secret weapon award goes to … drum roll, please… the false eye lashes!

According to celebrity makeup artist, Christian Zamora, “no bride should be without false eyelashes, be they strips, half strips or individuals. Lashes make the eyes pop in photographs, and we all want to see the love and joy in the bride’s eyes.”

He recommends Sephora Flirt-It Lash Duo because you have control of the length and fit of the lash to make it complement your natural blinks.

Before deciding if you would be a good candidate for false lashes, you should wear them around for a trial run. Yes, lashes are exactly like a new pair of heels — you’ve got to break them in! Or, in this case, break your eyes in. At first, lashes can feel annoying and big if you’re not used to wearing them, but like most things you wear for the first time, you get used to them after a while.

In case you want to practice yourself before you wear them on the big day, here’s how you can apply false lashes:

1. Examine the lash band. Decide whether or not it will comfortably stay on your lid. You can trim the band to make it fit any way you like.

2. Check the adhesive. Some lashes come with adhesive strips already on the band, while others come with it in a tube. If yours comes separately in liquid form, use a small toothpick or bobby pin to help you apply the glue to the lash band. Allow the adhesive to sit for a few seconds before applying.

3. Apply the lashes by holding the lash band inward, making it curve to the shape of your lid. Apply it as close as possible to your natural lashes, but not on the lashes themselves. If you are using individual lashes, apply them to the outer portion of your lash line first, then work your way inward.

4. After the glue has dried and the lashes are firmly in place, you can add another coat of mascara, and eye liner to make the lashes blend in.

People who have never worn lashes are sometimes concerned that taking them off is painful! Put your fears aside: it does not hurt! Eyelash glue is not permanent or hard. In fact, it is more like a tacky glue that has just enough adhesive to keep your lashes secure and stable through extensive wear, while still making removal an easy and pleasant experience.

One of the reasons you should consider wearing false lashes on your wedding day is for dramatic and noticeable eye beauty, yes, but also for the practical purpose of avoiding a messy and ugly spectacle: runny mascara! With false lashes, you don’t need to wear much mascara, if any at all. Your eyes will show beautifully in photos, adding the extra bridal sparkle to your overall look.

To be perfectly honest, there’s not much more you can do to feel prettier and girlier on your wedding day (other than wear a good bra or a rockin’ heel). So slap on the lashes and blink your way into happily ever after!