Monthly Archives: January 2011

Finding the Perfect Photographer

Happy New Year! We want to extend the warmest welcome to brides and grooms who got engaged over the holiday season. Planning your wedding should be fun, and while we know it’s overwhelming to think about everything from vendors and venues to guest lists and food, the Yentas want to help.

As you may already know, Yenta Nicky is also a wedding photographer and has been shooting weddings for six years. Nicky has a few tips to help you find the perfect photographer for your wedding day. No matter what your budget is, skimping on your photographer is a mistake. Nicky has heard from far too many brides who have ended up with terrible photos of their wedding day, and it’s a heartbreaking scenario that can’t be corrected. After all, your photos are the one lasting memory you have, and they’ll be passed down to your kids and grandkids. If it’s money you’re worrying about, you can find a great photographer even with a smaller budget. You don’t have to sacrifice great photos; you just have to know what you are looking for.

Professional wedding photographers should have an extensive portfolio filled with lots of brides and grooms. If you see the same couple over and over in a portfolio, that is a huge tell-tale sign that you might be looking at a new photographer. A photographer’s portfolio should be rich and diverse. They should have a well branded website, living blog, and contact information readily available.

Your photographer should have albums to show you. You want to be able to get an idea of what an entire wedding looks like by the photographer. This is the best way to get to know the photographer’s style. A professional photographer should have at least two sample albums to show you if not more.

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Make sure your photographer has insurance, a contract, and a back-up plan. You want to make absolutely sure you will be covered in the event your photographer gets ill or has an emergency. If you meet a photographer without a contract — run! A well-written contract is incredibly important, make sure you read through the contract before signing with any vendor. Ask about insurance, how long they have been in business, and ask for referrals. A good, experienced photographer should have no problem giving you the email address or phone number of a few previous clients so you can speak with them.

Do you mesh with your photographer? Make sure you do! Your photographer is the one vendor who is with you all day, from the time you’re getting ready with your girls to the cake cutting and last dance. You want to like and trust your photographer enough that you would be happy having him around through all the moments of your wedding day. Before your book, meet your photographer. Visit her studio. Speak to her on the phone. Take the time to interview enough photographers and don’t just go with the one who has the cheapest price. Select the one you like best and whose work you absolutely love.

There are websites out there that can really help you narrow your search: Check out WeddingWire, Project Wedding, Martha Stewart Weddings and the Knot. These sites list photographers by their price points so your search is a little easier. Spend time looking at websites of photographers whose price lists fit within your budget. If you like what you see, email them, get a feel for them, and make appointments to meet a few of them. Best of all, most of these will have reviews from real brides. Feedback from brides who have used vendors you’re considering is so important, and can really help you decide which vendors you want to take the time to actually meet.

Yenta Nicky is happy to answer any other photography related questions you might have! Feel free to email her at nicky@theweddingyentas.com

The photos below were used in an article written for Junebug Weddings and they so perfectly show the differences between a professional and amateur photographer, taken from the same wedding during very special moments.

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Real Weddings | Costa Mesa, CA

There’s always that mutual friend that deserves an extra wink as you take a stroll down the aisle to the chuppah. For Todd and Taryn, their mutual friend confirmed that they really were b’shert. The magic started in downtown San Diego when a group of pals brought them together. Friends recall that the two spent the entire night huddled in the corner from the moment they met, gabbing about Israel, languages, and whatever else they discovered they had in common. From (almost) day one, they were committed to a long-ish distance relationship, as Todd and Taryn lived in different regions of Southern California. You could say it was fate or an alignment of stars, but one week after Todd and Taryn met in San Diego, Taryn received an email from Jdate. It was an email introducing her newest match, a 25-year-old Jewish boy from Carlsbad named Todd. Sound familiar? He was the same Todd she had met just a week before through a friend. The same Todd she had already received a phone call from to arrange a date for the following weekend. Jdate wanted the two to contact each other, but Todd and Taryn beat them to the punch.

An endless number of weekends were spent driving back and forth to see each other, traveling together, and getting to know their families. Love was just easy for them.

Above all else, Todd and Taryn wanted a traditional Jewish ceremony, incorporating some of the rich elements of a culture that they both adore. So, it was easy to choose the place where they’d exchange vows. The couple wed at Temple Bat Yahm, where Taryn grew up attending Shabbat services, religious school, and so many family celebrations. A day full of personal touches, rich traditions, and loving warmth sealed the deal for two perfect people beginning a lifetime of pure happiness.

Mazel tov, Taryn and Todd!

Ceremony Venue – Temple Bat Yahm
Reception Venue – Celebrations by Turnip Rose
Coordination – Events by Denise
Photographer – Joel Austell Photography
Videographer – Scott Video Productions
Floral Design – Jenny B Florals
Rabbi – Rabbi Mark Miller
Cantor – Cantor Jonathan Grant
Ketubah – Barbara Goldstone
Entertainment – California Band
Hair – Michelle at Flawless Faces
Makeup – Miguel Andrisani
Jewelry – Margaret Elizabeth Jewelry
Printing – The Printery
Bridal Gown – Dori Anne Veils
Bridesmaid Dresses – Priscilla of Boston
Groom and Groomsmen Attire – Men’s Wearhouse

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San Diego Loves The Yentas!

On December 31st, the Yentas were in their own homes and ready to call 2010 as a pretty good year. They had started TheWeddingYentas.com and had seen a wonderful growth in the little site that had never been attempted before. From the editorial partnership with JDate that ignited in June to the wonderful vendors that they’d met and supported through the Vendor Directory, to finishing off the year with the installment of free wedding websites on mywedding.com — it was a year of good things. Plus, there was the cherry on top, the icing on the cake, the sweet thing on the yummy thing: the readers — you! — who had learned about the site and showed ever-loyal readership. Yes, 2010 was a good year indeed.

So it isn’t surprising that the Yentas fell asleep on New Year’s Eve wondering what could be in store for 2011 and hoping it will top 2010.

Wonder and hope no longer! Within minutes of waking up on January 1st, they found the online article published in The San Diego Jewish Journal that’s all about The Wedding Yentas! Happy New Year to us, indeed! What a way to start of 2011 and we know this is only a sign of fabulous things to come for all of us in the Yentas family. We wouldn’t be anything without our readers and friends in the wedding industry. We all love weddings — working them or planning them — and we all have come to realize that the Jewish wedding community is a little tighter now.

If you’re in the San Diego area, pick up a copy of The San Diego Jewish Journal and enjoy the piece. You can even hang it on your fridge. But if you’re not in San Diego, fear not! The Internet is a lovely, lovely thing. You can read the article online!

It’s with a hearty l’chaim that we raise our glasses of Herzog Kosher wine to you and wish you a happy and healthy year full of lots of love and laughter!

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Winner Announced!

We hope you all had a wonderful time celebrating 2011! Hopefully you enjoyed some champagne (and not too, too much!) and a lovely little kiss at midnight, and you’re now set to engage in a successful year ahead full of good health, laughter, and love!

But the year just got even better for one lucky winner who will be puckering up with soft lips and a perfect color! Susie Chhuor Professional Hair and Makeup Team sponsored this week’s Friday Favorites and with the help of random.org, we have a winner! The lucky gal taking away the MAC Lustreglass lip gloss in Love Nectar is … drum roll! … GRETCHEN! Congrats, Gretchen! We hope you get in lots of smooch time with your new MAC lip gloss!

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Thank you to everyone else who participated and left comments in this week’s Friday Favorites! We always appreciate your loyalty and enthusiasm and hope you learned a new lip care tip! Please check back for more giveaways and make sure to “like” us on Facebook to catch all the latest news in Yenta Land!