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{Real Jewish Weddings} Boston, MA

Christine and Josh were married on a sweltering Sunday in August at the Omni Parker House in the historic city of Boston. The two of them are a match made in heaven and a force to be reckoned with. Christine lights up a room whenever she enters it and loves the standards, right down to her “getting ready” playlist of Tony Bennett and Frank Sinatra. I think she was getting in the mood for their honeymoon in Italy. Josh, more of the observer and quiet one, was a surprise with his love of hip hop and urban culture, and also had a certain relaxed vibe that really worked well with his amazingly lovely bride.

The couple were wed under the chuppah by the ultra hip Rabbi Joe. He wrapped the couple in Josh’s grandfather’s tallit while they were presented to their guests as husband and wife. Their ceremony was a blast complete with a horah and a toast to Josh’s grandfather with his favorite cocktail.

Mazel tov, Christine and Josh!

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Event Venue: The Omni Parker House
Photographer: Kristin Chalmers Photography
Hair Stylist: Salon MJH
Floral Designer: Blooms of Hope
Dress Store: Allegria Bridal
Cake Designer: The Icing on the Cake
DJ: Dan Sky Music
Makeup Artist: Kerri Herlihy

Editorial Partner: Two Bright Lights

Sponsored Post: Blow Out Salons For The Win

I have to admit, I’m a big sucker for a good blow out. My hair, like many of my Jewish sisters, is curly and sometimes unruly, and after having a baby, Mother Nature has also left it a bit thinner. So, needless to say, when I have the opportunity to have it professionally blown out and styled, I am quick to jump into a swivel chair and let the round brush do its magic… by someone else.

Blow dry salons are popping up all over, and I’m a fan of this trend. Sometimes you just want to go in for a quickie, and you don’t want the stress of contemplating a cut and color as well. There’s something special and luxurious about going to the salon just for a blow out; you feel like you’re a celeb and there should be paparazzi outside the on the sidewalk, waiting to snap your picture as you, of course, head over to Kitson to go shopping with Katie and Suri. But that’s not the case. You’re just a nice Jewish girl who wants good hair. These blow dry salons make you feel magical, though, that’s for sure.

So when I was invited to Blow Angels in Los Angeles, I was all too excited to feel celeb-ish and get pretty hair for the upcoming weekend.

I didn’t let the sparse parking stress me out, since I knew that pampering was minutes away. Walking in and admiring the super chic turquoise aesthetics of the salon, I knew I was in for a good experience. I waited a little bit for my stylist due to a scheduling mishap, but I knew good things were in store thanks to classy touches like a canister of water with submerged mint leaves (very hospitable) and photo books of styles and ideas with angelic themes like Heaven and Halo.

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When it was my turn to sit my tushie in the stylist’s chair, we discussed my current hair status (limp curls that lacked volume) and what I wanted to see on my head when she was done with me (fullness and curled ends to mask the fact that I actually needed a haircut). After our consult, I was escorted to the shampoo area in the back and the stylist did a great job cleaning and massaging my scalp. The awkward parts about the shampoo anywhere I go: It’s sooooo relaxing, but do I close my eyes? That’s so creepy. Also, stylists converse but I can’t hear anything because there is water sloshing around my ears. These are awkward moments between a client and a hair stylist. I think we should start a no-talking rule during shampoos, not because I’m unfriendly (I’m not), but because how many times can I say “I’m sorry, what” without wanting to drown myself in the hair washing sink? It would save me a lot of anxiety about social graces. Who’s with me?

That said, the shampoo was good. And it was onto the blow out.

My stylist did a fine job of controlling my hair. She wasn’t too hard on my scalp (though, as a curly haired gal, I can take heavy-handed styling and pulling), but I still felt like she was doing a thorough job. The products made my hair smell good and she didn’t try to sell me on them. It’s not that they’re not good products, but I already have enough trialed-and-sometimes-errored serums and gels and mousses and sprays and spritzes taking up precious cabinet space in my bathroom at home. I don’t appreciate when stylists sell while I’m in the chair, and I’m thankful this was not the case while I was at Blow Angels.

At the end, my stylist handed me a mirror so she could blueprint her steps and final masterpiece, and I was pretty pleased with how my hair turned out. The style was a little more fluffy than I imagined, but I knew it would deflate to a more reasonable height and width as the day went on.

The friendly staff sent me on my way and I was back on the road (though in traffic — thanks, 405!) and onto my evening’s plans.

I think visiting Blow Angels, and blow out salons in general, is a reasonably priced and convenient luxury for special occasions. At $29 per blow out, it’s something you could do every week if your budget allows for it. Otherwise, it’s extremely reasonable for special occasions like showers and bachelorette parties. I know many brides set up events for their bridal party on the day of the wedding, and as long as you make reservations in advance and time it properly, Blow Angels will accommodate you and your girls at the salon to give you a personal experience with great service. They can also give you some extra pampering with deep conditioning treatments ($15) or scalp massages ($9) for a few extra bucks.

There are makeup services that I didn’t patronize, but with prices at $30 per application, this could be an easy and low-cost fix to a face that needs a little sprucing. It’s more or less what you might pay at the mall makeup counter when you purchase product, so in theory, you could walk out of Blow Angels with hair and makeup complete at under $100.

I would recommend Blow Angels for Angelenos who are looking for a non-chain blow dry salon experience. I’ve been to other salons that are just for blow outs, and I think Blow Angels is pretty comparable. Perhaps Blow Angels lacks a little sophistication and chic-chic style when compared to its competition salons, and that’s only because Blow Angels also hosts a boutique and items for sale at the counter which clutter the salon’s ambiance some, but this is not a factor that makes the blow out experience anything less than enjoyable. The overall decor and touches themselves, though, are very pleasing.

For bridal or day-to-day stylist, check out Blow Angels. It’ll feel heavenly to have perfectly styled hair.

Blow Angels is at 11659 Santa Monica Boulevard Los Angeles, California and is also on Facebook.

{Real Jewish Weddings} Downtown Los Angeles, CA

I absolutely love when couples intertwine their passion with their wedding plans. Jackie and Jordan incorporated the art of opera into their ceremony with singers who serenaded them and their guests. And with the event taking place at the Dorothy Chandler Pavilion, the beautiful Los Angeles opera house, there was no escaping the music. Not even for couples’ photos that were shot across the street at the Walt Disney Concert Hall. Nope. No escaping music.

The richness of The Dorothy Chandler Pavilion was enhanced with deep reds and purples, complemented by crystals that dripped from the florals. A crowded dance floor proved that all of Jackie and Jordan’s guests felt the music as well, and they danced the night away in their formal best.

Mazel tov, Jackie and Jordan!

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Venue: Dorothy Chandler Pavilion
Photographer: Chris Schmitt Photography
Caterer: Patina Restaurant Group
Event Planner: Mimi Events

What Should You Do When Guests Don’t RSVP To Your Wedding?

Remember those nights you spent on Illustrator designing your perfect wedding invitation? Remember the days off work you took to purchase your papers and embelishments and create prototypes? Remember the episodes of Grey’s Anatomy you half-watched while you assembled each and every element of your printed invitation into its coordinating lined envelope? Oh wait, who am I kidding, you would never only half-watch Grey’s. Okay, so shows your fiance watches that you couldn’t care less about? Probably more like that.

Point is, you spent a lot of time creating an invitation suite that would represent you as a couple and the style of wedding you are planning. Plus, your blood, sweat, and tears went into this expensive DIY project! Or, maybe you ordered them through a professional company and spent the bucks to mail out formal letterpress invitations to all 80 households.

So, what chutzpah to have a few dangling responders who’ve not yet sent in their reply a couple handfuls of days before the wedding! If you’re foaming at the mouth about this, it’s okay. You’re entitled and it’s safe to bet all Yentas would feel the same way.

It’s so simple: a household receives the invitation to your wedding. There’s an RSVP deadline. The household should send in their reply — yes or no — by the deadline. Done. Easy. No brainer. Unfortunately, you can’t expect everyone to be so considerate. So, what do you do when guests don’t RSVP to your wedding?

What you shouldn’t do is blast your frustration on Facebook. Passive aggressive never looks flattering on a bride. Stick to white and lace. Emailing seems like a good idea, but if the household was unable to reply with tangible, paper mail, it’s safe to bet that easy-to-forget and out-of-the-way electronic mail won’t make it through their eyes, out their fingers, and into your account. Also, IMs won’t do because many people leave their IM clients on even when they’re not at the computer and it’s possible they’ll miss it, so skip the GChat check-in with the absent RSVPer.

Go the old fashioned way: there was a time long, long ago when people used these things called — say it with me — “telephones” to — are you ready? — “speak.” Yes, they’d pick up a phone and dial a number and then both voices would communicate. I suggest this method.

So who calls? Whoever in your immediate family “owns” the dangling RSVP should make the call. If it’s your future father-in-law’s college sit-in buddy from back in the day when they worshipped Jerry with the rest of the Deadheads, have him call and find out what the status is (hopefully the status is not “still following The Dead.”). If it’s your sorority sister who has pregnancy brain and can’t seem to remember to even feed herself day to day, give her a ring. If it’s your mom’s mah jongg pal who’s busy organizing the temple’s upcoming tournament, then your mom should make the call. Bottomline: getting a reply will be much more effective if the TBD invitee hears from his or her connection to your wedding. Sometimes our parents invite people we don’t even know to our weddings and they might get the invitation in the mail and think “WHO’S marrying WHO????” And if, by chance, it’s one of your friends who is holding the RSVP card hostage (as if!), then you can call or ask your MOH to call. It’s very likely that you’ll be stressed about a zillion other things so close to the wedding date, and this is the kind of thing you can count on your MOH handling because she’s calm, dependable, and supportive — reasons why you picked her!

If anything, these calls can be a confirmation that 1) the guest even received the invitation; 2) the guest mailed it in, but maybe something went wrong?; 3) the guest is intending to come and with the invited people or person the invitation was addressed to. This helps clear the guest’s assumption that an invitation addressed to him doesn’t include his newest floozy of a fling, her daughter, and her daughter’s BFF. Unless, of course, you want all of them at your wedding… ahem. Whatever. No judging here…

Always make sure to check with your venue or catering company when they need a final headcount and calculate that date into your RSVP deadline. Make your deadline a week before that final headcount is due. That way, you have a buffer of time between when you need to know and OMG WHEN YOU NEED TO KNOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Take comfort in knowing, though, that unless you’re getting married on the top of Mt. Everest, it’s very likely that your venue or caterer will be able to accommodate those who show up that day without an RSVP (I am not talking about wedding crashers/people you didn’t invite). They might bill you after the fact, but they usually have extra food on hand for this precise occurrence.

At the end of the day, it’s okay to be frustrated when your invited guests don’t take the 32 seconds to fill out the RSVP card and pay $0.00 to mail you back the response. But, just know that everything is fixable and once you get over the principle of it all, you really will enjoy the big day no matter who is there.

{Real Jewish Weddings} Chicago, IL

You could just tell that Sami is the kind of girl who has excellent taste and knows how to execute her vision perfection. David, with his gentle smile and kind eyes, is exactly the guy to give her the moon. With her expertly lined eyes and long golden curls, she was an absolutely stunning bride. Sami poured herself into her stunning Anne Barge dress, pinned a Greek eye to the lining of her dress, and slipped on her shoes. Va-va-voom! The chuppah was covered in lush flowers from Heffernan Morgan and draped with strands of crystal. The table in the center was illuminated by a chandelier hanging inside. The chuppah was surrounded by rows of silver chiavari chairs, and the room was softly lit with a purple glow. Sami and David moved to a quiet terrace on the 2nd floor for their First Look that featured over-sized windows overlooking the Water Tower. The trio of musicians from Accolade Musicians tightened their strings and filled the room with beautiful melody.

Sami and David were blessed to be surrounded by over 200 guests and it was a marriage of families, not just two people. Sami was escorted down the aisle by her mother to join David for a simple and sweet ceremony that concluded with satisfying crunch of breaking glass.

Guests enjoyed a lively cocktail hour, followed by a reception that could only be described as luxurious. The ceremony room had been transformed into a beautiful lounge, twinkling with tealights and filled with the heady fragrance of the roses that crowned the centerpieces and marked each place-setting. The couple shared their first dance to a live cover of The Mamas and The Papas song, “California Dreamin’.” True old souls. Their tasty cake, by Oak Mill Bakery, was topped with a sparkly D monogram. Sami and David chose a phenomenal live band for their reception, Dynasty, and their rockin’ style kept the guests on the dance floor all night.

Mazel tov, Sami and David!

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Venue: The Westin Michigan Avenue
Photographer: Joshua Albanese Photography
Event Designer: Heffernan Morgan Designs
Cake Designer: Oak Mill Bakery
Band: Dynasty
Ceremony Music: Accolade Musicians
Makeup Artist: Starlight Makeup