Monthly Archives: June 2013

{Real Jewish Weddings} Houston, TX

Unlike couples who envisioned every detail of their wedding before ever becoming engaged, Jackelyn and Zachary were more free-spirited when it came to planning their big day. They knew only that they wanted a fun and different event that was meaningful and special to them. They enlisted professional planners and designers to interpret their many unique preferences into one cohesive look that matched their unique personalities.

Jackelyn’s favorite memory of her wedding day was the first look before the ceremony. She and Zachary met in a private room overlooking a garden. She walked up behind him and tapped him on the shoulder. Both cried and laughed together for a few private minutes. The time together before walking down the aisle was truly special.

Jackelyn also loved getting ready at the synagogue with her family. Her mother, sister, cousins, sisters-in-law-to-be and mother-in-law-to-be prepared in the bride’s room throughout the day. Jackelyn was surprisingly calm and enjoyed her time with “the girls”. Her relaxed demeanor surprised her as it was very different than she thought she’d feel.

The couple’s favorite detail was the giant mirror that displayed their table seating assignments. Jackelyn recommends that future brides take time to take in the little details like that, and to take mental pictures of every moment, no matter how small it may seem at the time. The day goes by too fast. And remember that the most important thing about your wedding won’t be the minutiae, rather, it will be the memory of having all of your loved ones in one room, celebrating the beginning of your new lives together!

Mazel tov, Jackelyn and Zachary!

Houston Jewish Weddings

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Photographer:  chipgillespie photographer
Event Planner: Something to Celebrate
Floral Designer: Darryl & Co.
Cake Designer: Alphorn Bakery
Hair Stylist: Blush & Co
Cinema and Video: Evoke Videography
Makeup Artist for Bride, MOB, and MOH: Blush & Co
Caterer: Rice Epicurean Catering
Musicians: Sauce The Band

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6 Steps To Easy Shoe Shopping That’s A Shoe-in!

Shoes! They are like the fun sidekick to our other best friends: diamonds. We gals love our shoes, and shopping for wedding shoes can be fun, but because they’re WEDDING shoes, they carry a little more significance and also require a new set of requirements.

Jason Kaczorowski Photography

Jason Kaczorowski Photography

I’m sure I’m not the only one who’s worn a super hot pair of shoes and then hobbled around halfway through the event cursing my feet and hearing them buzz with throbbing pangs at the end of the night. Every time this happens, we say “never again!” and yet, there we are, partying at another event, with leather digging in, or heels tingling with numbness, or toes getting shmushed by straps. Why do we torture ourselves? It’s bad enough we have to hold our pee all night because we have to wear Spanx! (Ok, well I do.).

I’m all about cute shoes, but pain is not a welcome guest on your wedding day.

The last thing you want is distraction from aching sore feet as you enjoy your ceremony and reception. And there’s nothing glamorous about a bride who winces and limps across the dance floor. And simply removing your shoes can be dangerous because your dress will suddenly get longer and you’ll take a trip before your honeymoon even begins.

You want stylish and comfortable? It’s possible! Start your wedding day off on the right (and left) foot: wear the right shoes!

Mi Belle Photography

Mi Belle Photography

  1. If you’ve never worn heels before, this is not the time to start. You’ll lose more than Cinderella’s glass slipper at midnight. You’ll lose your balance. And from there, your dignity. And from there… Ok, I will stop. Your wedding day is not the time to play dress up. If you haven’t had practice in any kind of height, you’ll only experience lows.
  2. Think about your dress. Make sure your doo-dads aren’t fighting. If your dress is enhanced with pearly details, you’ll probably want to stay away from shoes that have lots of bling. They just won’t go. If your dress is ivory and your shoes are white, ehhh, they may not work well together. On the other hand, don’t be afraid to complement your dress with your shoes! A fun pop of color! Lots of blingy shoes for a simple unembellished dress! A cool pattern!
  3. Think about your groom’s height. If you two are the same height already, you’ll gain some inches on him once you don the heels. Make sure he’s cool with whatever height you become so that you’ll like how your pairing looks in pictures. If you’re already taller than your groom, then this is a non-issue and you go rock those legs, girlfriend!
  4. If money is an issue, don’t spend a lot or any at all. Shoes aren’t really the focal point of your wedding ensemble. If you’d rather put the cash toward your photographer, you can save a lot by shopping at stores with a large variety or with heavy discounts (try Macy’s, Payless, Aldo Shoes , Shoes.com, Zappos). If shoes are not really that important to you, you could also borrow a pair of shoes from a friend or family member. And there you go, you have our “something borrowed!”
  5. Be a two-shoe gal! You can always bring a comfy pair of shoes to wear for your reception or when your feet start to kill you. Just make sure they still fit with your dress, taking into consideration the style and the length of your dress. If you must have those hotsy totsy pair of amazing designer shoes for your photos, then I say go for it! Then, when you’re done with them, send them to me slap on another pair that may be a bit more comfy for your tootsies. Maybe just wait until after the Horah so everyone can see your cute shoes popping out from your dress when you two go up in the chairs.
  6. If you end up wearing heels, break them in! Before your wedding day, get to know your shoes. Become one with your shoes. Make your shoes your biatch. Basically, your feet should be like, “Ohhhh heeeey! Nice to feel you again! Welcome back! Get on here, you ol whippersnapper, you!” Seriously, if your shoes don’t talk to you, you have bigger problems.

Happy shoe shopping! May your two soles/souls fall in love!

Jessika Feltz Photography

Jessika Feltz Photography

Tales From The Veil: Chuppah Style

Excited to share Stefanie Syat’s wedding chuppah today as described by Miriam, blogger extraordinaire on the blog, Pre-Dame: A Beauty Guide for the Everyday Girl. Pre-Dame explores the beauty industry through the life of Stefanie Syat, Pre-Dame owner and professional makeup artist. Stefanie and Miriam answer beauty questions and provide solutions for blunders. Whether it’s through photos, videos, or in-depth explanations, Stefanie and Miriam teach you all you need to know to put your best face forward! And since Stefanie is now a recent bride, she has the wedding background to back up the bridal beauty analysis. Check out the Pre-Dame Facebook page for regular news and updates! Miriam narrates Stefanie’s vision for her chuppah in an excerpt from Pre-Dame below.

Vermont Jewish Wedding by Jami Saunders

The hebrew word for “covering” is chuppah, and today we’re featuring the one-of-a-kind chuppah Stefanie and Jacob were married under. On its most basic level, a chuppah symbolizes the home the couple will build together. Different customs call for different protocol. Some couples don’t wear any kinds of knots or bows at the ceremony because at that moment they’re tying the ultimate knot and it’s said that there shouldn’t be anything else binding them. Others have a custom not to wear any jewelry beneath the chuppah so that they can truly and honestly assess the value they’ve found in each other. If you notice, the sides of Chupah are open and that symbolizes a commitment from the bride and groom to always have a home that’s open to guests.

It’s beautiful, all the thought and care that goes into this special day. I’ve learned that on the day of the wedding all of the blessings that the couple will merit in their lifetime sit on top of the chuppah during the ceremony. I mentioned this to Stefanie a little while back and sat down more recently to hear what the chuppah meant to her and Jacob.

Vermont Jewish Wedding by Jami Saunders

“I think of the chuppah as the centerpiece to the whole ceremony,” Stefanie said, “It’s what houses us as we make our commitment to spend the rest of our lives together and transition from an engaged couple to a married couple.

I wanted the chuppah to represent our style, not only for the wedding day, but in life too. We love nature, hence the reason we got married in the middle of Vermont on a mountain top, and we love the grand feeling of being surrounded by trees and nature in general. When you’re on the top of a mountain, you feel humbled by all of the gorgeous surroundings and realize what life is all about. We live in NYC with the constant hustle and lack of nature so getting out of the city to relax and take in the fresh air is key in our happiness. To us, the chuppah represented our new “home” together. We told the florist to make it as “tree-focused as possible with little to no flowers,” and he did it beautifully!

Vermont Jewish Wedding by Jami Saunders

The tallis represents past generations of those married under the Jewish law. That is a family tradition of mine that we wanted to continue. The photos represent all of our ancestors who lived lives that allowed us to be there on that special day. They helped shape our families and the people we are today and we look to them as witnesses to the new family that we will create together.”

I’ve also learned that on the day of the wedding a G-dly light shines from the faces of the couple. Kabbalah says that the family members of the couple that have passed away have a presence, too. For Stefanie and Jacob, the photos they included made sure of that.

Vermont Jewish Wedding by Jami Saunders

Photographer: Jami Saunders
Florist & Chuppah: Jasper & Prudence Floral

10 Questions to Ask When You’re Interviewing Professional Wedding Photographers

I have always been an advocate for professional wedding photography. I cringe when I hear about couples “hiring” Uncle Bob to take the photos on the most important day of their lives. Just because someone has a fancy-shmancy camera doesn’t mean they can use it to the best of its ability. And even if they can, that doesn’t mean they know weddings. Even if your friend or relative is a professional photographer, he or she may not deliver the best potential photos if the professional photography covers… nature. Or cars. Or even babies. Every genre has its own daunting requirements, and wedding photography is no different.

A professional wedding photographer has worked as a second shooter under another leader in the industry at some point, understands the general flow of a wedding, and has great people-skills to manage groups of family and friends as well as you and your partner during intimate moments throughout the day and the days leading up. You’ll also work with your photographer after you’re all good and married because you’ll need to design your album together, so having a comfortable rapport is a must!

Hopefully I’ve convinced you to hire a professional wedding photographer, and you’re now considering a few different companies to interview. Choosing who to hire is a big decision and is probably on the same level of importance as choosing your venue. Do not cut corners on photography. You will regret it and that will make me sad. Careful consideration and a chunk of your budget should go into your wedding photography selection.

So how do you decide? What do you ask? Keep reading!

  1. Do you pre-scout locations at your wedding venues? A wedding day goes by pretty quickly! Nobody should be wasting time figuring out the best spots to photograph you! “Nobody” means you, your partner, your family, your maid of honor, and certainly not your photographer. Hopefully, your photographer has either worked the venue a bunch of times and knows every nook and cranny that would benefit the look of your photos. If your wedding photographer has not shot at the location before, that’s OK, but I would hope he or she would check out the venue in advance and take into consideration the time of day the shooting will actually take place so that the proper lighting and angles will complement you as you star in your wedding photos.
  2. How do you shoot in non-ideal shooting circumstances? Small rooms, bad light, weird angles, far shots — these situations occur, especially if you’re getting married inside in the synagogue. There’s nothing wrong with getting married in the sanctuary, but just keep in mind, it could be a photography nightmare for someone who’s not a seasoned pro. So ask the photographer how they deal and make sure you’re cool with their plans for these likely variables. Adapting is key. They can’t fix these shooting conditions, but someone who knows what they’re doing can still produce excellent photos.
  3. Do you have an assistant and what does your assistant do? Have a clear understanding of what the assistant shooter handles on the day of the wedding. Is it the details shots? The far away or side angle images? Is it the getting-ready session with the groom and his guys? Ask these questions to understand how your day will be photographed so you can have open communication and comprehension of the flow. Yes, you are hiring a photographer, but you are also getting his or her work style and system in the price. Make sure you like it along with the photographer’s personality and photo products.
  4. Do you work with the videographer to share the space? Like cross-town high schools, photographers and videographers can become wedding rivals. That’s not necessary, but it happens. Your photographer should feel comfortable advocating for his or her work and setting up a system that will help both the photos and the video succeed in capturing your day. Both vendors are important to you and the preservation of your memories. A true professional has the communication skills to work the videographer and, really, all vendors who are part of your wedding team.
  5. What’s the deal with your back-up gear? You don’t even have to understand everything about camera technology, but it’s important to know that your photographer has a plan if shtuff hits the fan. Ask about the gear he or she uses. Most likely it’ll be either Canon or Nikon. You don’t have to agree, prefer, or even know the difference between the two, but they are both great brands of equipment. Also make sure you know that the photographer has back-up batteries, cards, lenses, and other gear that will ensure your memories will be captured even in an emergency. Your photographer should have relationships with other photographers or camera stores in case borrowed or rented equipment has to save the day in an emergency situation.
  6. What happens if you can’t shoot my wedding? Photographers get sick, too. Or get into car accidents. Or sprain their ankles. And while we never wish this on anyone, we certainly don’t wish this on our photographers near our wedding dates. But hey, accidents do happen. So ask the potential photographer what the plan of action is in an emergency and if he or she can’t be at your wedding. Find out who the back up photographer(s) will be in the event the hired photographer can’t make it. The photographer may not be able to give you the exact name, number, address, weight, blood type, and SSN of a singular person, but he or she should have a Rolodex of colleagues to have cover if something icky should happen.
  7. What happens if there are still important wedding events to photograph, but the time on our contract expires? Here’s the thing, you are not asking your photographer to shoot and not bill for time. That’s called slavery. You are more than willing to pay for the time for your professional wedding photographer, but make sure you know the protocol for staying longer than the contracted hours. Sometimes, weddings run late or the events of the Wedding Olympics don’t go as scheduled. So if your photographer has been contracted to stay until 9 p.m. and your cake cutting hasn’t happened yet, how does paying for more time work? Whats the cost? How do you pay? Most photographers should be able to stay longer for a price. Make sure those details are on the table.
  8. Do you blog? To be honest, I am nervous about photographers who don’t blog or take part in social media. That tells me they are not up-to-date on current wedding trends and operations and lack some business savvy. I know that’s a really bold statement to make, but I would personally have a hard time hiring a photographer who is not staying on track with the climate of the wedding industry. So, I would want my photographer to blog. Still, you may not want to be featured on a blog or on social media. Be sure to say so, so that you and your photo team are on the same page about your privacy preferences. This also goes for submissions to wedding blogs (ahem!) and Facebook albums.
  9. When do I have to order my album? Wedding albums are no joke. It’s not a project you want to rush through or haphazardly design. You need time, patience, and, well, quite a few dollar bills. Find out when you’re expected to select photos for the album so that you have a reasonable timeline to expect. If there’s an expiration, you’ll be able to budget and save appropriately for the album as well as make photo decisions in a timely manner.
  10. When can I expect to see the finished work? Once the bouquet has wilted and your thank you notes are mailed, you’ll be eager to view the finished photos. Having a clear expectation of when that will happen will make your post-wedding blues ease up. Some photographers will have teasers ready for you before you get back from your honeymoon! Others will take three or so months to show you raw images. There’s no real right or wrong answer, but knowing an answer at all is more than half the battle. It really is so exciting to see teasers or, of course, a whole gallery when they’re up! Hopefully, it happens soon!
Photo by Amie Fedora Photography

Photo by Amie Fedora Photography

{Real Jewish Weddings} Los Angeles, CA

Can’t help loving the timeless and classic style of this Los Angeles wedding! Want to know how to do it up big while keeping it tasteful? Hire the same dream team that Faith and David did! Here it all unfolds! One of L.A.’s premier wedding bands kept the guests in motion and The Luxe on Sunset is well-versed on Jewish weddings, so they have the whole routine down pat while still accommodating each and every individual event. B&G is a personal favorite of The Wedding Yentas as the photography is top notch and the team behind the camera is just a blast to work with (love ya!). Lighting makes a world of a difference at a wedding reception, so please make sure to take note of the beautiful work by AV Masters! A bride is not a bride without her bridal gown and Lisa Litt of Lili Bridals takes care of each and every one of her brides, maids, and moms. Faith is absolutely stunning so it looks like she got the usual treatment from Lisa and her team! A wedding like this one is a well oiled machine thanks to DB Creativity at the helm. I always say that if the budget allows, a wedding planner should make your experience so much lighter and happier.

Faith and David’s exquisite wedding is a perfect example that you don’t have to have a gimmick to your wedding. High-end design and a good time make the event a success!

Mazel tov, Faith and David!

Los Angeles Jewish Weddings

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Photographer:  B&G Photography
Venue: Luxe Hotel Sunset Boulevard
Lighting: AV Masters
Event Planner & Florist: DB Creativity
Band: De Bois Productions
Dress Store: Lili Bridals
Bridesmaids’ Makeup & Hair: Soreya Yann
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