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Winter Weddings Inspiration

No mater what you celebrate this time of year, it’s easy to fall in love with winter weddings. There’s something so romantic about exchanging vows in front of a backdrop of white winter.

Here are some of my favorite winter weddings images. They’re just snow good!

Ella Photography

Ella Photography

Amy Lashell Photography

Amy Lashell Photography

Tessa Perkins Photo

Tessa Perkins Photo

Clarke Walker Studios

Clarke Walker Studios

Melissa Diep Photography

Melissa Diep Photography

Peter Bang Photography

Peter Bang Photography

Think you’re stuck and out of luck for good ideas for winter weddings? Wrong! Snow plow your assumption and heat up your brain with this super cute idea: SNOW SKIS! CHUPPAH POLES! Is this not brilliant, or what?

Happy Winter, Everyone!

Tessa Perkins Photo

Tessa Perkins Photo

Jewish Weddings 101 For Groomsmen

The Wedding Yentas are happy to have Brian Becker guest-blog today! Brian, who is not Jewish and more of a practicing Nothingish, has been the Best Man in a Jewish wedding and brings his expert opinion to the Yentas family of readers. Here he explains what every Jewish bride and groom should tell their non-Jewish wedding party.

I am not a Jewish Bride. I’m not even Jewish. But having been the Best Man, I do have an important piece of advice for anyone getting ready to tie the knot – a little list I like to call “Things to Tell Your Gentile Groomsmen.”

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Look, men are already at a disadvantage because…well…we don’t know about weddings. And unlike bridesmaids who are let in on every little detail, for the most part, nobody tells us anything. So imagine how confusing it can be to be the goyim in the wedding party when the more traditional customs start to unfold. For example…

Yarmulkes. We’ve probably never worn one. In fact, I just had to look up how to spell it. On top of that, we’re expected to fasten it with another foreign piece of hardware: a bobby pin. In my case, the groomsmen did such an abysmal job that the bridesmaids had to do emergency readjustments just seconds before we escorted them down the aisle. So please, do everyone a favor and offer a little kippah 101 in advance.

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Rings. As the Best Man, I was the nearest person with pockets at any given moment. That meant that I was constantly being handed more things to carry. In fact, I ended up carrying three ring boxes (one for the groom, one for the bride and one plain, unornamented ring for the bride to use during the ceremony). Add to that other last-minute cargo like vows and tissues, and the groomsmen can start to feel like we’re wearing saddle bags. Do your best to think through who will schlep around your wedding day accessories – and give that person a heads up!

The Hora. Think for a second what it must be like to witness a giant whirlpool form on the dance floor just moments before someone grabs your hand and pulls you into the vortex. Speaking for the “non-chosen people,” we do not see that one coming. What’s more, we’re expected to hoist the groom up on a chair and carry him around for several minutes. This is a great moment, and a lot of fun. Just make sure you prep your bridal party that some heavy lifting may be required.

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The Ceremony. If you’re incorporating Jewish traditions into your wedding, it’s a nice idea to explain them in advance. Otherwise, while you’re circling your husband seven times, your groomsmen may be scratching their heads. If you fill the bridal party in on the significance of the customs featured in your ceremony, they’ll be able to share the moment with the rest of your guests, instead of wondering what’s going on.

Take it from a Jewish wedding survivor: A little orientation can go a long way. Make a point to share some your wedding customs with the gentile-men in your bridal party, and you’ll help ensure that every one is relaxed and happy on your special day. Good luck…and l’chaim!

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Brian Becker is a freelance writer and editor, and most importantly, a Best Man extraordinaire. He lives in the Los Angeles area and enjoys a good Captain and Coke, an Aaron Sorkin flick, and a round of trivia.

From The Expert: Blinging Out Your Cake With The Perfect Topper

Melissa Dell is the bling queen! During the planning of her wedding in 2008, she wanted to put as much “us” in it as she could. They didn’t have a large budget, and she scoured every possible inch of the web, local resources, and personal contacts trying to complete the vision she wanted, but without spending loads of cash. When she went looking for the cake topper, she had always dreamed of one that was encrusted in crystals. But, when she saw the price tag online, WHOA! Her dream almost faded away. But, after a few different trial runs, they finally ended up with a styrofoam spray painted set that she and her husband covered in crystals. And that was the start of a lucrative resource that can help all brides get the bling they deserve on their wedding day! As the owner of Bling Diva Designs, Melissa is happy to offer design ideas and bridal accessories fulfillment on The Wedding Yentas!

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So you feel like your cake needs a little extra something-something? Could it be more flowers? Ribbon? These are great ideas to spruce up your cake for some confection perfection, but those are all very cliche and “done” ideas. Maybe you want to be different. You really want your cake to stand out.

What about something so spectacular and sparkly, and could be kept as a keepsake for years to come? Bling Diva Designs is the perfect option for you. Started in 2008 after owner & bride Melissa created one for her own special day, the brand has blossomed into custom creations as well as traditional monograms for all types of couples!

JGuess Photography

Melissa’s passionate about weddings and loves to offer advice about the design and crystal choice of the cake toppers. Because she’s a true wedding junkie, her personal eye for style makes sure that the bling topper complements the cake design and wedding decorations.

“I love finding out how each bride has built her dream wedding,” says Melissa. “Sometimes it’s with use of colors, such as the A&G wedding. They used the colors of the peacock feathers to incorporate into their wedding reception. The bride was not going to be taking on her husband’s name, and wasn’t sure what to do on top of the cake.

I suggested using their first name initials, and choosing bold colors to coordinate with the hand painted feature of their wedding cake.”

James Lang Photography and Bling Diva Designs

While the Bling Diva Designs web site offers a great starting place for choosing either single monograms, full monograms, or the popular XOXO topper, custom creations are possible with drawn designs or even the monogram created by outside invitation designers.

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But why stop at the cake topper? Bling Diva Designs can help incorporate more bling pieces for you. Bridal and bridesmaid bouquets can have monogram accents to sparkle as you and your girls walk down the aisle.

After the wedding, all of the cake toppers and bouquet charms can have the acrylic rods removed and stored in a shadow box along with other keepsakes from your day. You can curate a beautiful collection of wedding mementos like you garter, invitation, jewelry, and Bling Diva Designs creations. You’re not just purchasing an item for your cake. You’re purchasing a treasure to keep for years to come and to always remind you of one of the best days of your life.

Stephanie Williams Photography

The Wedding Yentas on BlogTalkRadio!

Today’s the day! Yes, it’s the day before Thanksgiving, but it’s also when The Wedding Yentas goes live on the air with David Rothstein on his program, The Wedding 101 Radio Show on BlogTalkRadio!

So step away from your box of cornbread mix (oh wait, that’s just me) and give your ears a present they’ll be thankful for — an Internet schmooze-fest!

At this point, I have no idea what we’ll be chatting about, but I know there will be lots of great questions and answers devoted to planning Jewish weddings.

I’m very thankful for this opportunity, and as always, very thankful for YOU! Brides, grooms, mothers, MOHs, wedding pros — you are all so fabulous and it’s an honor to create for you every day!

Details for today’s radio broadcast:

I’ll be live at 1:00 PST/3:00 CST/4:00 EST with encore listens whenever you’d like when you visit The Wedding 101 Radio Show.

To access the show, click here!

Press the play button and tune in. I hope you enjoy it! And if not, well, I’m glad you can’t throw tomatoes through the computer.

Happy Thanksgiving, Yenta-friends! Enjoy your yummies and your favorite people!

Sponsored Post: Blow Out Salons For The Win

I have to admit, I’m a big sucker for a good blow out. My hair, like many of my Jewish sisters, is curly and sometimes unruly, and after having a baby, Mother Nature has also left it a bit thinner. So, needless to say, when I have the opportunity to have it professionally blown out and styled, I am quick to jump into a swivel chair and let the round brush do its magic… by someone else.

Blow dry salons are popping up all over, and I’m a fan of this trend. Sometimes you just want to go in for a quickie, and you don’t want the stress of contemplating a cut and color as well. There’s something special and luxurious about going to the salon just for a blow out; you feel like you’re a celeb and there should be paparazzi outside the on the sidewalk, waiting to snap your picture as you, of course, head over to Kitson to go shopping with Katie and Suri. But that’s not the case. You’re just a nice Jewish girl who wants good hair. These blow dry salons make you feel magical, though, that’s for sure.

So when I was invited to Blow Angels in Los Angeles, I was all too excited to feel celeb-ish and get pretty hair for the upcoming weekend.

I didn’t let the sparse parking stress me out, since I knew that pampering was minutes away. Walking in and admiring the super chic turquoise aesthetics of the salon, I knew I was in for a good experience. I waited a little bit for my stylist due to a scheduling mishap, but I knew good things were in store thanks to classy touches like a canister of water with submerged mint leaves (very hospitable) and photo books of styles and ideas with angelic themes like Heaven and Halo.

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blow-out-bars

When it was my turn to sit my tushie in the stylist’s chair, we discussed my current hair status (limp curls that lacked volume) and what I wanted to see on my head when she was done with me (fullness and curled ends to mask the fact that I actually needed a haircut). After our consult, I was escorted to the shampoo area in the back and the stylist did a great job cleaning and massaging my scalp. The awkward parts about the shampoo anywhere I go: It’s sooooo relaxing, but do I close my eyes? That’s so creepy. Also, stylists converse but I can’t hear anything because there is water sloshing around my ears. These are awkward moments between a client and a hair stylist. I think we should start a no-talking rule during shampoos, not because I’m unfriendly (I’m not), but because how many times can I say “I’m sorry, what” without wanting to drown myself in the hair washing sink? It would save me a lot of anxiety about social graces. Who’s with me?

That said, the shampoo was good. And it was onto the blow out.

My stylist did a fine job of controlling my hair. She wasn’t too hard on my scalp (though, as a curly haired gal, I can take heavy-handed styling and pulling), but I still felt like she was doing a thorough job. The products made my hair smell good and she didn’t try to sell me on them. It’s not that they’re not good products, but I already have enough trialed-and-sometimes-errored serums and gels and mousses and sprays and spritzes taking up precious cabinet space in my bathroom at home. I don’t appreciate when stylists sell while I’m in the chair, and I’m thankful this was not the case while I was at Blow Angels.

At the end, my stylist handed me a mirror so she could blueprint her steps and final masterpiece, and I was pretty pleased with how my hair turned out. The style was a little more fluffy than I imagined, but I knew it would deflate to a more reasonable height and width as the day went on.

The friendly staff sent me on my way and I was back on the road (though in traffic — thanks, 405!) and onto my evening’s plans.

I think visiting Blow Angels, and blow out salons in general, is a reasonably priced and convenient luxury for special occasions. At $29 per blow out, it’s something you could do every week if your budget allows for it. Otherwise, it’s extremely reasonable for special occasions like showers and bachelorette parties. I know many brides set up events for their bridal party on the day of the wedding, and as long as you make reservations in advance and time it properly, Blow Angels will accommodate you and your girls at the salon to give you a personal experience with great service. They can also give you some extra pampering with deep conditioning treatments ($15) or scalp massages ($9) for a few extra bucks.

There are makeup services that I didn’t patronize, but with prices at $30 per application, this could be an easy and low-cost fix to a face that needs a little sprucing. It’s more or less what you might pay at the mall makeup counter when you purchase product, so in theory, you could walk out of Blow Angels with hair and makeup complete at under $100.

I would recommend Blow Angels for Angelenos who are looking for a non-chain blow dry salon experience. I’ve been to other salons that are just for blow outs, and I think Blow Angels is pretty comparable. Perhaps Blow Angels lacks a little sophistication and chic-chic style when compared to its competition salons, and that’s only because Blow Angels also hosts a boutique and items for sale at the counter which clutter the salon’s ambiance some, but this is not a factor that makes the blow out experience anything less than enjoyable. The overall decor and touches themselves, though, are very pleasing.

For bridal or day-to-day stylist, check out Blow Angels. It’ll feel heavenly to have perfectly styled hair.

Blow Angels is at 11659 Santa Monica Boulevard Los Angeles, California and is also on Facebook.